Why people treat Pubes as Rubies??
Because they treat them as precious! Now, don't question with utmost annoyance that why people do that? This question is answerable for half of the population, whereas the remaining half remains calm and ignore the bush. Okay, let me not beat around the bush. Do you know the pubic hair of men and women (basically humans) is adorably nicknamed as Pubies? Yeah, this is how most of our childhood days went laughing at the word, but deep inside proud of what we can grow down under.
Proud? I know, some of you are quite feeling it inside right now. And yes, these are the people who grow their pubic hair or make their partners do that for them. It is kind of a sexual fetish, people crave for. There are many pros and cons to the growth of pubic hair. Sex is one weird thing and genitals can never make a person calm down a bit when it comes to sexual fetishes in bed. No matter whatever you do and however you distract, a person who has a foot fetish, always focus more on your toes than your dick or vagina. That's what fetishes do to a person, make him/her go mad to fulfill those weird (for others) fetishes.
Most of the men grow their pubic hair and do not be shocked if I particularly say that they maintain with intimate washes, oils, and serum. For them, their bushes are more important than their beards, because, a beard can itch his partner, but a well-grown pubic hair acts as a cushion during penetration. Yes, indeed. During anal sex or vaginal sex, when a man inserts his penis during sex, this pubic bush helps him to act as a gap between the two genitals which provides the sexual urge to be hard and also provides him comfort. An advantage of having pubic hair is to maintain the perfect gap and smoothly hit each other's genitals.
There comes another category of people who loves smelling pubic hair of their partners. Yeah, people who can love the sweaty fragrance can understand. This is kind of an extension to armpit fetish. People like to smell and taste armpits of their partners because of the slightly pungent and strong body odor blended with the sweat. Exactly, some people love enjoying the pubic hair by digging their noses into their partners' genitals. You may feel it yucky, but this very thing is precious for some. Don't be judgmental.
Women in the current millennial era, are going behind paining bikini waxing procedures, but back then, all the lords and kings used to order their wives to grow their pubic hair. Even Vatsayana who wrote Kamasutra has mentioned this and also, in a detailed way, he mentioned how to make love and caress one's partner's pubic hair which leads the doorway to the hidden genitals.
Some men grow it in a huge forestry way, where some trim and some shave. And, many say, how beard makes a man look sharp, even pubic hair does the same purpose with a man's cock. Shaven pubes, mostly irritate and add rough and patchy skin above the penis. Are most of the gay bottoms and straight men who love being clean, having second thoughts? Well, do not worry, if you maintain proper by moisturizing daily, you can have good skin. But, never apply after shaving lotions, that's pubic hair, not your facial hair.
Now you may also get a question in your mind, what about the hygiene factor? Well, this is one important thing to think upon. At most of the times, pubic hair is covered by the underwear or outerwear, the sweat constraint will be more and it may allow unwanted bacteria to rule the world by causing some skin infections. Hence, you must wash and clean properly, not only the main genitals, but also the hairy crown of your genitals. A point to remember: intimate washes are also meant to maintain the pubic hair.
No matter, what kind of person you are, you always give attention to your pubic hair, which is inescapable. Because, if you love, you grow it, if you don't like, you regularly get rid of it as a routine. Hence, pubies are treated as rubies, like preciously. Extremes are always hard to reach and maintain consistency. If you grow it continuously for your fetishes, you may have to compromise in hygiene. If you shave it continuously, you may have to compromise with your rough skin. Hence, maintaining a trimmed pubic hair is an ideal thing to do.
Even though you like it more, never grow too much to irk your partner when he/she comes down on you. And also never shave all the time, to give the same monotonous look to your genitals, who knows, your partner may like your pubic hair. In this dilemma, proper communication with one's partners, including hookup partners will help you. Just give a clear idea about your fetishes and maintenance routines, before they weirdly react at you.
According to the studies done in sexology, more than 72% of people, like to have their pubic hair for various reasons. Well, who doesn't like having precious gems in their pocket!!
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