What's liking girls in a gay way!?
There's one common question that pops up in every typical straight man's mind whenever he encounters a bunch of girls with gays, "Why girls like hanging out with gay boys or homosexual men?" And personally many gays out there get questioned regarding their chemistry with the female crowd. Sometimes it's inexplicable for any gay guy to explain this piece of information to people because some pure relationships and rapports can't be explained. Simply, they just happen like any other bonds. Girls and Gays get along splendidly, anytime, and anywhere. Period!
Being gay doesn't mean that a particular male can't like or love or get attracted to females. Indeed, every gay likes girls, fall in love with them and try to grab some attention from them. The only thing is, all these acts don't include the sensual, romantic, and erotic aspects. So if a gay guy tells his girl bestie, that he loves her much, that completely he loves her the way her father cherishes her. It's purely unconditional. (though conditions like shopping, dressing, bitching, checking out guys are applicable)
Girls feel safe and secure when they are with and around gay guys. This is not only because they think they won't get molested or sexually abused, but also they think it would be fun, relatable, and engaging to have a man who can understand their personalities, tantrums, and traits.
Speaking of getting related, gays and lesbians play a prominent role in supporting each other in the queer community. They follow each other's preferences, likes, dislikes, tastes, and orientations too. Because in the queer community, most of the same-sex encounters happen among gays and lesbians. There's no doubt in it. And hence, you can inevitably find a gay guy having a lesbian bestie and vice versa. Lesbians have gay wingmen and gays have lesbian wing women. And you can practically witness this in any queer party.
Not only lesbians but also many female queer allies, strictly heterosexual women or bisexual women, gel up with gays in an impeccable manner without any passing any judgmental criticism. Most of these females consider the opinions of gays more than their boyfriends or husbands or typical straight male partners. A woman's heart can be penetrated by any man, but only a gay man can accept a woman's heart without any filters. Because their wavelengths match any time regardless of any situation.
A few female feelings are complex to understand by typical straight males. It needs a little bit of curve, a few shimmery sparkles, and a lot of colors to comprehend such feelings. Proudly presenting gays can go through the deeper strings of feminine feelings. This is the very reason, why women find gays cuter and they always complain about "Why all the cute guys have to be gay"? Because they all desire a man to act upon their feminine feelings without judging them or feeling embarrassed about them or restricting them.
If you think girls like shopping with gay guys just to take their fashion opinions, then you are wrong. It's because they like to hang out with someone who can be patient with their shopping time, encouraging them to try new things, inspiring them to shut the body image rules and get comfortable in all sizes, and simply be a crazy shopping pal.
Girls also accept the opinions of gays about the men they see or date or about to get committed or sometimes before getting hitched to a long-time boyfriend too. If you think your girlfriend accepted you just like that, trust me there would be a lot of blended opinions behind that one decision, and most of them could be from her gay best friend. So, all the straight men, if your girl has a GBF, make sure you don't mess with him.
Gay men understand the definitions of girl power and feminism well. They persistently try to encourage their girl pals to showcase their strength and will power in many possible ways. They like to see women as independent and individualistic.
Most gays relate their effeminate personalities with their girl pals. Not only they go out shopping, but they have also make-up sessions together, they deck up together, they criticize together, they love together, they hate together, they sleep cozily together, they cuddle together, they intervene in each other's lives (sometimes without giving prior notice), they check out people together, they support each other, they stand for each other, sometimes they get into cold wars and catfights, they get jealous on each other, they become possessive about each other, and simply, they look after each other.
If you are a gay guy who has a lot of girl pals and if you are a girl who has a gay best friend in your life, surely you could relate to all the things mentioned above. That particular relationship between a girl bestie and a gay best friend is pure, full of chastity, loads of drama with complete transparency.
Gaily liking a girl, is all about liking a person without laying any conditions, accepting the way the person is, being as constant support, loving with the utmost care and affection, not taking for granted in every possible way, and most importantly, not forcing or harassing a person.
Regardless of your sexual orientation and gender identity, especially for all the heterosexual men, your girl or partner or wife always wants you to like the way, a gay man likes her, emotionally!
Dedicating to every girl pal in my life. Well, unlike others, I'm blessed with many of them!