What if you lose it half-way in sex? - NSFW
Of course, not losing your genitals though, but yeah what would you do if your penis suddenly becomes limp instead of staying hard during sex? Well, needless to say, you would freak out especially when your partner is completely aroused and waiting for you to take some action in bed. Instead of freaking out, you can do many things to get back to your original sensual moods and can still have sex without abruptly stopping without any reason.
There's nothing here to feel embarrassed about. Mostly gay tops worry about this issue as they need to stay hard and make the blood rush through the pelvis to penetrate one's partners. But sometimes, dicks become unpredictable. Sometimes your dick keeps erected even after oozing out semen and sometimes it gets suddenly limp in the middle of your sex session. You need to understand your anatomy and act accordingly. Firstly, consider it as a common phenomenon that happens to many gay men out there.
Don't conclude that you are not a good performer and feel disappointed when you lose it halfway even though you want to have it so badly. Because there could be many reasons behind your sleeping dick. It could be your sleeping habits, excessive consumption of alcohol and smoking, being on narcotics, work pressure, and mental stress. Your routine possesses its effect on your performance in bed. So, you may experience the sudden breaks your dick may take to breathe a while to resume the sex sessions.
Hence, you need to consider all these factors and check with your routine the day before and the day on which you have sex. Surely, at least one of those elements can be a reason behind your sloshed-off penis in the middle of your sex season. All you need to do is to keep calm, understand and breathe.
If you experience this scenario during sex, you need not feel anxious and worried. Sometimes it happens and it is completely okay. Take your time and if your partner asks you the reason behind it, just be truthful regarding your situation, instead of feeling disgusted and disappointed. Your gay bottom partner surely understands you. Don't assume that you will be degraded for this very minute thing.
Occupy the time by having fun. Get back to foreplay. Enjoy a lot of oral sex. Turn the act and get into roleplaying. Try to get back to the world of sensuality by embracing each other's bodies by body play, rimming, blowjobs, and most importantly kissing. To elevate your erotic moods, you need the help of hormones. Kissing regulates testosterone, whereas oral sex gives you the adrenaline rush in making your blood flow in your pelvic muscles properly to make your penis hard. That's how you can easily get back to penetrations even if you lose them in mid-way. It indeed helps you long last in bed and increase in climaxing time.
If your dick doesn't support you at times because of your routine, stress, and habits, give it a space to get firmer by focusing on the other things in sex. Penetration is not the only thing in sex, right? By the time you explore and revisit the other erogenous areas, you become hard within no time. So, relax!
But, if you keep experiencing this phenomenon regularly, you need to visit a doctor. But in most cases, you don't need to consult, especially when you can make changes in your lifestyle by eating food which is rich in iron, fiber, and calcium, by reducing the intake of alcohol, by quit smoking, by keeping professional things to office spaces and not dragging them till bed, by balancing out the anxious moods with your stamina so that you don't face the performance anxiety, by regulating your sensual moods towards spending a long time with your partner instead of rushing up in sex directly towards penetration, by keeping your mind calm, focused and extremely erotic instead of getting diverted and drifted away with unnecessary thoughts.
All these slight changes in your personality will make things get back to normal within no time, and you don't have to chase doctors and visit hospitals for just making your dick hard. Many gay couples, especially gay tops face this issue. So, if you are a gay bottom, make your partner understand that it is quite common and he can easily get through this within no time. Isn't it sensuous to make your gay top partner feel good about his dick no matter whether it is firm like a hammer or soft like a witching rod? (Puns intended.)
