Have you repeatedly failed in love? Did you leave anyone by mentioning a ridiculous reason? Have you ever got dumped by someone like a piece of trash? Above all, have you ever experienced pain in love? Almost everyone encounters bitter experiences in love. People may experience with one person or with many people many times. Some become weaker and some become more determined. Various people have various ways to cope up with their breakups. A few people focus on improving their personalities by making some productive efforts and some people become a little dramatic by purposefully degrading themselves with various addictions to just get rid of the past loving memories.
Mostly, all such people are considered as love-failures, fucked up souls indeed and hence they are treated as some bad influences on society. Always remember, pain can be controlled in several ways. Some opt for productivity and some opt for destruction. Both are equally important. You must be wondering how destroying one's self or going in dangerous paths may encourage a person to cope up with a troubled relationship?
It's okay to get lost, and it's okay to explore the ugliest places. How many of you have addicted to hookups or having sex with many people just because you had a painful breakup with a person you loved the most? How many of you have started drinking way too much than before or addicted to smoking cartons of cigarettes daily in the process of erasing all the memories? Half of the couples who break up with their partners, choose various paths to ruin their harmony in search of peace. Some even commit suicides and some commit the worst blunders of life. We think that we may gain some peace of mind if we sleep with every random person, drink till we puke, smoke till we cough badly, end up being in bars by committing terrible mistakes, and may even end up our lives. But every single option of these destructive paths leads to the destruction of a person, not upliftment.