Ways to handle your rebellious partner!
Being rebellious can be taken in two ways; one set of people can't stand any kind of injustice, imbalance, and improper ways of society; the other set of people are simply disobedient, unmanageable, and uncontrollable. Unfortunately, there is one more kind of people who are the blended versions of the above-mentioned categories. No matter what, they always stand out from the crowd with their outspoken and revolutionary personalities. These rebellious people are hard to get into the aspect of romanticism and even though they fall in love, they can hardly come out of their turbulent thoughts. If you have fallen in love or be in a relationship with such a person, you must try hard to balance out the level of emotions in your romantic bond and with love, anything is possible.
Never try to restrict and suppress the rebelliousness of your partner instead try to control and manage it according to the situations by involving the emotion of love, care, affection, and responsibility so that your partner thinks twice before getting aggressive on others or on you.
There's always a story or some critical situation(s) attached to a person's life to transform that person from calm and innocent to rebel and wild. Try to know the flashback stories of your partner and how he/she/they have faced one's struggles in life. This will let you know the real reason behind the rebellious personality of your partner. Most importantly, never judge or conclude after listening to your partner's stories.
Anger, aggressive attitude, arrogance come as add-ons to your partner's personality traits. That's the reason why you may find some of your partner's answers or replies or conversations quite mean and cold. Of course, sometimes it becomes difficult for any sane person to handle such demeaning phrases from someone whom you love, but give it a moment and calm down to think and evaluate the whole situation.
Because if you get furious and if you start screaming and yelling at your partner, things will surely go wrong and it becomes quite challenging to find a solution for such arguments because rebellious people always try to prove their point and they can go any kind of extremes for that. Instead of raising voices, try to explain the whole situation in a particular manner so that every point of yours can be heard and perceived properly.
Get habituated with the passive-aggressive moods of your partner. Your rebellious partner can be quarrelsome and argumentative but when it comes to love, your partner definitely thinks twice before spilling one's harsh statements. Hence, your partner conveys his/her message in a balanced way so that you will get to experience both the heat and cold in the same statement. So, be aware of it and understand that something's gone wrong somewhere and you need to rectify it as soon as possible.
Do you know this untold fact that rebellious people are the ones who are bestowed with sensitive hearts? Yes, just because your partner acts unruly, it doesn't mean he/she/they don't believe in sensible emotions. They can be easily molded and sometimes can be easily manipulated too. Ultimately, they can be easily cheated on too. Even, they are aware of their sensible side, and hence, they pretend to be harsh enough so that no one could take advantage of their soft side. No matter how rebellious your partner is, when it comes to being charitable, your partner can easily get drifted away. So, make sure you handle it in your way so that your partner won't end up in a mess because if something goes wrong, that would indeed affect his rebellious nature and he/she may become unbearable later on.
If you try to act, smart in your relationship by not being true to yourself, true to your partner, and true to your relationship, your partner sense it for sure, and without any second thought you will be dumped like a piece of trash. So, never even think about cheating on your rebellious partner because you can't tackle those unpredictable consequences.
Most rebellious people are spontaneous and instant. They react quickly and sometimes they don't care about their surroundings and portray their anger and arrogance. Typically, it's hard for any person to deal with such extreme and unexpected situations. All you need to do is to take your partner away or convince him/her to calm down a bit by encouraging him to act smart instead of acting rude. Your convincing and compromising skills come in handy to deal with your rebellious partner.
When it becomes too much for you to handle your partner, express it to him/her/them. If you keep suppressing your emotions, you will burst one day and who knows you may turn into a rebellious one. Never lose your personality for the sake of anyone else including your romantic partner. So, express your tolerance and let your partner know that you are not able to bear more. A true partner could understand how you feel and try to sort out the issues by talking and negotiating the terms of your relationship.
Communication is much needed when you are with someone who hardly listens. Never stop trying to put your thought in front of your partner even though you know your partner tries to strike it off. If you stop spilling your side of the conversation, it clearly encourages the rebelliousness of your partner and no one can stop your partner later, including your love.
Get involved in unnecessary fights with others, arguments with random people, and using abusive language when your partner finds something wrong are the common aspects that can be seen in your relationship. So before committing to a rebellious partner, make sure you can able to handle all these things.
Never drag things and exaggerate a situation. It makes your partner go crazily mad. So after every issue, don't bring it up again in your next issue. Love can mend any kind of person. So use your romantic and erotic tactics to calm your partner down. Never feel disappointed, disgusted, and embarrassed for having such an outspoken extrovert who can point out things that most people don't dare talk about them.
On top of everything, feel blessed to have a badass beside you. Rebellious people don't hesitate to express their emotions and feelings be it anger or romance. They love with their pure hearts, and they expect the same from others. They try to bring balance to society by being rebellious. They work better that way and hence if you try to suppress their personality, you won't find the charm in them anymore. Don't you think taking something you loved in your partner leaves him/her/them with nothing but a soulless body? Find out the balance because that's the best way to handle your rebellious partner.
