Ways to deal with your teenage queer love problems!

The teenage phase of any person is kind of edgy as it involves a lot of exploration in many possible ways. Love and sex are two aspects that every queer teenager feels curious to explore with one's romantic and sexual partners and during the process, one may fall into the traps of romanticism and eroticism and face a few problems. Instead of dealing with them, many queer teenagers choose other paths like giving up on themselves or giving up on the idea of love, or simply get into things that are hazardous to one's physical and mental health!




The coming-out scenario is one of the major problems in queer teenagers. Some come out at an early age without scrutinizing the surroundings, environment, and family conditions. Not every family accepts a queer kid initially, and most of them end up quite conservative and rigid towards encouraging a queer teenager. This is when they come up with baseless conversion therapies. Hence, every queer teenager needs to know and act according to their circle.


Moreover, many queer teenagers come out forcefully and intentionally, when they are deeply in love with another queer person. Under the name of love, many people have ruined their life scenarios just by acting without thinking twice. If two queer teenagers fall in love, their sexual status comes into the picture especially when they want to go further and ready for some serious commitments. This can be only sorted if a queer teenage couple talks about everything clearly and negotiate how things must work that can benefit them without affecting their peace, career, and lifestyle.




You can be curious, but you should never be stupid enough to explore things that aren't meant for you. You can find hundreds of queer couples who spill couple goals every single day, especially on social media platforms. It doesn't mean your life must be the same. Most queer teenagers compare themselves and blindly chase behind beautiful assumptions. You must realize the reality and work in a way that should bloom your relationship. Stop worrying about others' opinions and strengthen up your love by focusing on your partner and your relationship, not others.



Unlike previous eras, most love tales are beginning with hookups and random casual dating scenarios. Maturity comes with experience, not age. You can be a queer teenager and can still sound mature enough. Try understanding the difference between lust and love. Invest your emotions in the person whom you love the most than investing in every single person you meet and talk sweet. It affects your mental peace and there are chances that you may lose interest in people if you keep wasting time on the wrong people. Be smart enough to choose the person according to your needs, be it for sex or dating, or a relationship.




Most queer teenagers aren't financially independent as most of them would be studying or working part-time jobs. This makes a person's livelihood a bit dependent on others and some completely dependent on one's parents. In this financial critical phase, one mustn't make hasty decisions that affect one's lifestyle and career. Of course, you do love your partner and can do anything for him/her/them, but love isn't enough to survive and breathe in the world which is materialistically everything. If you take one wrong step, you end up in deep troubles and may get into things that you never expect to step in. So act wisely and try to control your emotions and feelings.




It doesn't mean you need to suppress your love, face the wrath of the oppressing society and give up on your relationship and your partner. All you require to do is to stay calm, confident, and calculative. Every single move matters. It's your love. Some people listen if you sound convincing, some people listen if you sound dominative and some people listen only if you are manipulative enough to get things done in your way. So, employ tactics wherever it is needed instead of throwing tantrums unnecessarily.




Curiosity in sex and physical intimacy can be seen routinely in queer teenagers. Needless to say, that is the right age for a person to be curious to know one's attractions, tastes, preferences, likes, and dislikes. But one must also consider the physical, biological, and medical factors that surround the world of sex among queer couples. You should never neglect to take preventive measures while having sex with your partners. One silly sexual adventure may cost your life in terms of STDs, HIV, and unwanted pregnancies.