Don't you think Pride month is the next best time after Valentine's month, for you to express your love for someone you have feelings for? Indeed, the "love is love" factor supports your emotions pretty well to let your dating partner accept your proposal but before that, you need to show your love interest how the committed life is going to be with you by celebrating your queer love this pride month in some romantic ways. Hence, if you are a queer person who fell in love with another queer person and practically evaluates every possible angle for you both to move further, from dating to a serious relationship, you must utilise Pride month to the fullest to mark your relationship beginnings!
June is the initial month of Monsoons and it is way romantic if you consider vacationing with your dating partner to any spot that looks beautiful during the rains. Here the aspect of nature definitely uplifts your spirit to go ahead and express what's there in your mind, be it a live-in relationship or even a long-distance relationship, anything serious can become simple on a cosy trip with your dating partner. Make sure, you go to a place which is queer-friendly and not at all conservative because all you need is peace, not privacy issues.
Pride month can be celebrated alone, with your queer pals but celebrating it with your love interest always feels special because it gives you that vibe of being with someone who can understand your queer personality and considers your queer love as normal as any straight couple. Hence, to spill your queer love vibes to the world out there, go for a long drive because it's romantic and also allows you time to explore each other's ideologies regarding love but yes, make sure that you don't argue on silly topics and ruin your moods while coming back. The motto is to celebrate your queer love not to portray that queer love can never happen!
Going out on a fancy date for lunch or dinner is always a good option but to make it better, you go to a restaurant which your partner fantasises about the most and also pick another day to go to a place which you fantasise the most. This gives a perspective of perceiving each other's interests, likes and preferences in terms of lifestyle. Before getting into a committed relationship, you must analyse every particular aspect to make sure you both won't get disappointed with each other's choices. Here fancy date doesn't mean stepping into expensive restaurants, if your partner likes to have hot tea and samosa under a roadside tea stall, go explore it and at the same time take your partner to your favourite biryani point. Follow the choices. Simple!
If you both are two different extremes, for instance, if your partner is an extrovert, then try living in the shoes of your partner for at least one day to celebrate pride month according to your partner's way and similarly convince your partner to stay with you and chill at home by watching queer movies over popcorn and coke like your typical introvert way of celebrating any occasion. Pride month is all about being proud of yourself and if you are a queer couple, you need to be proud of your partner no matter how opposite you are to your partner.
Pride month is a colourful party month where you can find many parties in various places in the world and if you belong to a metropolitan or cosmopolitan city, you will be flooded with too many queer parties around. Hence, if you both are party people, choose a weekend to attend a crazy party as a powerful queer couple by sending signals that you are quite serious about each other and completely head over heels in love. But make sure you both plan it in a way where you deck up together, dress up together, step together, dance together and even get sloshed together because this executes you that feeling of being with your partner and embracing your partner's existence from the beginning to the end of a party. Also, it is always fun to make others a bit jealous and send signals that queer couples can be serious about each other by crushing the queer relationship stereotypes.
Make this pride month special by gifting each other something that you can cherish both of your queer love. Don't think that it's cliche to present a rainbow or unicorn-related gift because it's cute to be queer any day, especially in pride month, you must represent your queer love through your gifts. Make it an exciting deal and surprise your partner with your thoughtful yet charming gesture to have many pride months together in future.
To make your pride month sensual and sexy, plan a typical sex date by considering the ambience and atmosphere. More than a sexual adventure, focus on making love by exploring emotional intimacy. Having sex out of lust is completely different from making love out of emotions. Let your partner how deep your love is by exploring the inside outs sensually.
Go somewhere (a place which is not exclusive to queer people) as a couple to engage in interesting things and to face the adventure of how the world reacts to being an open queer couple. Be it a regular cafe, Starbucks, movies, or even a temple, where you can find the blended crowd. Don't hesitate to behave like a couple and don't pretend to be just friends. If you love each other, there's no wrong in expressing that love publicly without affecting others. This social experiment is one of the best ways to celebrate pride month by letting the people around you know that you are a same-sex couple and proud about queer personalities by exhibiting your queer love, loud, out and proud. This also provides you with a clear perspective of how your partner receives the crowd's reaction if you both get noticed as a queer couple publicly. This particular element unhesitatingly portrays a complete picture of how your relationship is going to be. Anyone can shower love in between four walls, that isn't a big deal but if your queer love interest hangs out with you in public without feeling conscious, embarrassed and disgusted, instead feel extremely happy, powerful and content, then it's a clear sign for you both to consider your future together as a couple!