Regrettably, this pressure is for both singles and couples too! In this social media era where everything gets validated by people virtually by missing that realistic factor, being an expressive couple on digital platforms is a hectic task indeed because of the pressures on the virtual world. Needless to say how everyone regardless of generation, got stuck up in the loop of doing their works and watching others' works. The typical societal norms remain the same but their influence got escalated from a mere neighborhood to the whole world out there because unlike previous eras where a few people used to be opinionated about others, now, every person with a social media profile started spilling their opinions on others.
Being a couple who expresses their feelings, emotions, routines, regimes, relations, and most importantly, relationship struggles, is absolutely fine and indeed good to motivate and move people out there but on the other side, there is a major con for such social media presence. And it's the pressure that bothers in various possible ways to various people out there. Hence, you must know how to get rid of such toxic social media pressures without stepping out of social media and by balancing the act of spilling couple goals.
It's beautiful to make people perceive how you flourish your relationship and how you manage each other's preferences, tastes, tantrums, and promises. But there's a way to make people understand that you undergo hardships too and also make them believe the concept of two sides of a coin. Showcase both the ecstatic moments and dull moments of your relationship instead of posting or showcasing the best moments of your life. Show the world the reality behind your relationship, not the edited version of your dumb videos.
Post, to establish your popularity among people by being realistic, not by being plastic with flashy smiles. Write a brief about every picture you click with your partner. Care about the feelings between you and your partner, not the backgrounds and exotic locations. Talk about the budget of your vacations and trips instead of provoking people with the breathtaking views of your couple-getaways. Make the world and people comprehend how you lead your lifestyle according to your societal status and financial standards. Let people observe you as a bond, not two different personalities who come together to increase name and fame on social media. That's not how you must give couple goals to people out there.
You can deliver fun content and make everyone know how you enjoy with your partner and how you express your love towards your partner but maintain the limitations of keeping your relationship out there so publicly because you never know how people may react to your content. In this materialistic world, some people are quite insecure and jealous of others and their relationship scenario.