Types of people who shouldn't get into one-night stands!
Like how, not everyone can accept and get along with the concept of monogamy, similarly, one-night stands aren't everyone's cup of tea, especially the ones, whose world revolves around various kinds of inexplicably romantic emotions. Of course, one must try one-night stands to explore one's orientation, sexual fantasies, sometimes to check one's emotionless capabilities too but not at the cost of one's inner peace and harmony!
One-night stand arrangements always come with serious disclaimers of non-involvement of emotions, no matter how good the other person is, in life and bed. Until and unless if you consider it as something you can be able to forget soon, you are not the right person to sign up for one-night stands but not only the emotional people but also a few others also shouldn't this ultimate casual dating lifestyle!
If you are an ardent believer of love, especially if you trust in love at first sight, you need to be careful with every single emotion run in your body because there are high chances for you to fall in love with a random stranger you meet in a bar and may not take that person out of your head, though that person already left your bed. So, if you are a lovely lovable person, sorry you need to recheck your dating scenario before getting into one-night stands!
Speaking of bars, most of the one-night stands end up as drunk sex sessions. A few barely remember with whom they bestow their whole night, under the influence of alcohol. It sounds crazy, and it sure feels like shit if you are someone who doesn't like such kind of physical intimacy without any involvement of emotions, feelings, and sometimes the aspect of consensuality too! In most cases, people end up behaving exactly opposite to their real personalities because of the amount of booze in their bodies. So, if you get sloshed, don't go with random people and wake up the next day with utmost guilt and regret. Try to hold your senses and follow your dating ethics! One-night stands aren't for you! Order a cocktail, flirt with someone, and go home safe!
Gone through a serious breakup of a relationship that lasted too many years to count? Are you planning to move on from your ex-partner's memories? Well, one-night stands undoubtedly aren't for you, and don't listen to all your pals who ask you to try sleeping with random people out there just to put you back in the market. It isn't the right path to mourn a relationship or to come out of someone's world. Instead, you can try seeing different people, going out for romantic dates, spending time exploring yourself, and investing your energy into making yourself better.
Choosing one-night stands just to make your ex-partner jealous or trying desperately to come out of your breakup phase, surely degrade your dating ethics and demean your whole meaningful dating scenario. Of course, one-night stands are also meaningful, but if you are someone who can stick to a person for way too many years, you don't befit the concept of seeing and forgetting people within the span of one night. Think and act wisely, especially when you know that your heart is broken and can get easily diverted.
If your an overly curious person who wants to explore inside out of the whole one-night stand casual dating lifestyle, make sure you don't get enthusiastic about this particular phase of your dating scenario. Most curious people can't come out of things that make them feel good but keep this in your mind, too much good sometimes becomes hazardous for a person. Like how smoking relieves stress to people, one-night stands also relieve all the sensual stress, horny moods and make you believe that it is the only way to be approachable in connecting with people. So, make sure you control your attachments with your one-night stands.
Most importantly, if you have higher expectations even from a restaurant waiter, then you can never get along with the people whom you meet if you ever choose one-night stands as part of your casual dating lifestyle. Of course, people who get into one-night stands aren't ruthless and cold, they are even better than many other people. They make you feel comfortable, open you up emotionally and physically too, satisfy all your sensual pleasure, but if you start expecting charming gestures, emotional attachments, and romantic feelings, they surely disappear on you! You must know one thing, expectations lead to disappointments. In this case, you surely get disappointed if you expect your one-night stand partner to be with you even after that one night you spent. So, no emotional expectations and attachments! Keep it casual and if you can't, don't think about a casual dating lifestyle scenario! Period!
