To all the people who think straight men can never have gay sex!

Can straight men have gay sex? This question sounds like a stereotypical one. Isn't it? Well, sorry for breaking this sexual stereotype, because the answer is yes! And if you believe a man who has sex with other men, must be treated as gay or bisexual, then you would go wrong again, because sexual orientations have nothing to do with sexual fantasies. To understand these particular inter-sexual-orientation sexual affairs, you must have a proper idea about sexes and sexual orientations.




Do your penis maintain a sexual orientation? Do you think your anus only allows penises which are labeled as gay or bisexual? No, right! Our body parts don't carry sexual orientations, if that is the case, we don't hug it out or shake our hands with people regardless of genders and orientations. Sexual attractions are also different from having sex. A person need not have to romantically get attracted to another person to have sex. This is why many of the straight men feel like having sex with homosexual men, regardless of the roles they play in sex sessions.




Which means, a straight man can penetrate and also get penetrated by other men while having sex. And he can remain as a straight man. He doesn't have to change his sexual orientation as gay or bisexual. It's purely according to the wish of a person. This is how "Male sexual fluidity" works. A man who identifies himself as a heterosexual can remain as heterosexual though he involves in intimate engagement with a homosexual or bisexual man. These men look at the sex concept with a man. Some men take it as a fun encounter and some men feel it as a sexual experiment or sex adventure. There are many straight men in this world, who always wants to explore gay sex, but all of them suppress their feelings because of this sexual stereotype!




In our society, a straight man is always considered to be having sex with a woman, never a man. This sexual regulation made heterosexual men restrict their sexual desires with other men. Heterosexual men never sexually or romantically to other men, but some men desire to have sex with other men to explore gay sex, especially the anal penetrations. A few men, even prefer to play the role of a bottom for a gay top to experience anal pleasure. Do you know why they choose men to fulfill this fantasy? Because, if a heterosexual man asks his wife/female partner to have a strap on to penetrate his ass, then the reaction could be quite unimaginable. Because a heterosexual man gets completely restricted to not to think about getting penetrated. If someone, finds out this fantasy, sure he would be stereotyped as gay or bisexual. But no one even knows that a heterosexual man can feel like getting penetrated and there's no wrong in it.




And there's another set of heterosexual men who allow themselves to explore the gay sex and feel good about being with a man sexually. There are chances that these men can later be identified as bisexuals or gays willfully. This transformation is absolutely possible because the sexual orientations are fluid and according to the male sexual fluidity, a heterosexual man can have sex with another man and tag himself as bisexual or gay if he wants to be identified as a person who is sexually and romantically attracted to men.




Male sexual fluidity is a concept that encourages men to explore and fulfill erotic desires with others regardless of their sexes, genders, and orientations. Heterosexual men can find gays interesting and also can hang out with them in bed sexually if they find their asses hot. Strictly speaking, straight men exclusively think about the anus and other physical traits that they find hot or attractive in gay men. So, there's no need for a straight man to get sexually and romantically attracted to a gay man to have sex because the only things they consider are the physical attributes of a body, not the emotional attributes of a soul. Naturally, they can like a gay man as a person but there is no rule that they need to have some romantic attractions towards gay men to have sex with them.




To all the gay men who have sex with straight men, if a person likes to be identified as heterosexual and wants to thoroughly explore the sexual desires with you, then it is your choice to accept it or not. If you accept, then you must know that there won't be any romantic attractions towards you, it's going to be all about only SEX. If you don't like to have, then simply deny, instead of urging them to re-label their sexuality. Because straight men can have sex with gay men!




To all the straight men who want to have sex with gay men, be sure whom you are looking at when you hit the beaches, because if you look at hot men in briefs instead of sexy women in bikinis, then you need to analyze yourself. And if you think gay sex is just a fantasy or an exploration in the world of sex, then go ahead and mention the same with the gay man whom you are attracted to. And don't consider the stereotype of getting judged as gay or bisexual. You can remain as a heterosexual even though you have sex with a man without any romantic attractions. Hence, yeah embrace the fact of male sexual fluidity and explore your sexual desires, but be careful, your sexual desires should give pleasure to another man, not pain, physically or emotionally!


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