To all the people who think straight men can never have gay sex!

Can straight men have gay sex? This question sounds like a stereotypical one. Isn't it? Well, sorry for breaking this sexual stereotype, because the answer is yes! And if you believe a man who has sex with other men, must be treated as gay or bisexual, then you would go wrong again, because sexual orientations have nothing to do with sexual fantasies. To understand these particular inter-sexual-orientation sexual affairs, you must have a proper idea about sexes and sexual orientations.




Do your penis maintain a sexual orientation? Do you think your anus only allows penises which are labeled as gay or bisexual? No, right! Our body parts don't carry sexual orientations, if that is the case, we don't hug it out or shake our hands with people regardless of genders and orientations. Sexual attractions are also different from having sex. A person need not have to romantically get attracted to another person to have sex. This is why many of the straight men feel like having sex with homosexual men, regardless of the roles they play in sex sessions.




Which means, a straight man can penetrate and also get penetrated by other men while having sex. And he can remain as a straight man. He doesn't have to change his sexual orientation as gay or bisexual. It's purely according to the wish of a person. This is how "Male sexual fluidity" works. A man who identifies himself as a heterosexual can remain as heterosexual though he involves in intimate engagement with a homosexual or bisexual man. These men look at the sex concept with a man. Some men take it as a fun encounter and some men feel it as a sexual experiment or sex adventure. There are many straight men in this world, who always wants to explore gay sex, but all of them suppress their feelings because of this sexual stereotype!




In our society, a straight man is always considered to be having sex with a woman, never a man. This sexual regulation made heterosexual men restrict their sexual desires with other men. Heterosexual men never sexually or romantically to other men, but some men desire to have sex with other men to explore gay sex, especially the anal penetrations. A few men, even prefer to play the role of a bottom for a gay top to experience anal pleasure. Do you know why they choose men to fulfill this fantasy? Because, if a heterosexual man asks his wife/female partner to have a strap on to penetrate his ass, then the reaction could be quite unimaginable. Because a heterosexual man gets completely restricted to not to think about getting penetrated. If someone, finds out this fantasy, sure he would be stereotyped as gay or bisexual. But no one even knows that a heterosexual man can feel like getting penetrated and there's no wrong in it.




And there's another set of heterosexual men who allow themselves to explore the gay sex and feel good about being with a man sexually. There are chances that these men can later be identified as bisexuals or gays willfully. This transformation is absolutely possible because the sexual orientations are fluid and according to the male sexual fluidity, a heterosexual man can have sex with another man and tag himself as bisexual or gay if he wants to be identified as a person who is sexually and romantically attracted to men.