Homophobic people are the ardent believers of heterosexual nature and they are the ones who can't accept the other side of the coin in the aspects of sexuality. Unlike people from various sexual orientations, these people stubborn about their belief of the unnatural existence of any person or place or situation. Simply, these are the ones who can't face change and society with different norms. It's not their mistake to be against homosexual people. It's the mistake of the society, their ancestors who influenced them to believe that only a man and a woman can love each other and especially can be in a sexual relationship with each other. Unfortunately, yes, these people do exist even today in between us, some criticize the queer directly and some are irked towards the queer in various indirect ways. But, we must accept that these people do exist in many people around us who may have accepted you for some materialistic reasons, but never accept you wholeheartedly because of their homophobic nature.
More than a phobia, these people feel sick talking, listening and reading stories about homosexuality, bisexuality, transsexualism and the total queer, all the people who aren't like them, man to woman. Handling them needs the utmost energies to defend them at every point they throw at us, which means we must make sure we have answers for every single irritating question, they ask us. Here are some of the ways we can tackle them cleverly by not hurting them and hurting ourselves and hurting the harmony of society.
The first thing, any homophobe raise is, the unnatural concept of the queer. Do you think that if being gay is unnatural, then why the hell we still breathing and reading this, why the hell every homophobic question this inappropriate one? It is natural and hence we exist in this nature and leading a life on earth with the same genitals and with various choices of sexual orientations other than only being heterosexual.