Tips to realize that you blindly support your partner!

And most of the time it makes a couple go gravely wrong when they don't consider the pros and cons of a situation and try to get along with each other's opinions or decisions regardless of weighing the consequences. You can fall head over heels for a person but if you shower your love in the form of unbiased, constant, and blind support for everything your partner gets on the table of your relationship, then one fine day, you find your romantic bond in a drowning stage. Hence, you need to be aware of yourself, your partner, your strong bond, and most important the kind of support you both provide for each other.




Under the name of love, sometimes we don't even think about considering the future consequences, instead, all we think about is to impress, satisfy and showcase the love for our partners. Once in a while, it is okay to go spontaneous by making instant opinions and taking quick decisions for the sake of seeing a smile on our partners' faces, but if this continues regularly, this becomes a habit. And habits are hard to quit, good or bad. We must realize the difference between occasional experiments and habitual adventures.


If you are a person who constantly provides any kind of support to your partner regardless of your situation and feelings without prioritizing your needs and requirements, one day, if you fail at doing one thing that supports your partner's need, then you will have to face the wrath of the blame game. Psychologically, we humans, don't remember the constant support, we only remember that one time when we don't receive that kind of support. So, realize this bitter fact.



For instance, if you unconditionally provide monetary support to your partner in your relationship in the form of shopping, entertainment, and financial aid, try giving it a pause in that whole process of support and witness the reactions. If your partner perceives you, he/she will try to know what's happening with you and most importantly supports your decision of not providing that respective support. But if your partner gets into sulky or attack mode when you fail at supporting him/her/them for once, then you need to realize, on what basis your relationship is surviving!


It's the same with all the materialistic things in life, be it your name and fame, be it your social status, be it any kind of support you strongly provide your partner to elevate