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Tips to know how to explore your bicurious personality!

Curiosity is an interesting factor that encourages any person to get along with one's fluidity, especially in terms of sexual orientation and gender identity. It aids in developing a person's understanding of one's personality and helps in exploring the extremes that stabilize and settle a person emotionally and psychologically. And that's the specific reason why one must not restrict one's curiosity about sexual fluidity. Until and unless you know what your romantic likes, sensual tastes, and sexual preferences are, how does any person relate to one's romanticism towards another person regardless of gender?

Bisexuality is a sexual orientation where a person finds both the gender binary (male and female) as equally attractive and opens up to have physical and emotional intimacy with both men and women. Heterosexuality is all about getting attracted to the opposite gender. There's a narrow fluid gap between these two orientations that make a person decide what he or she actually is and hence, that gap gets considered as a phase of exploring one's orientation by getting along with one's curiosity. That's when a person realizes the bicurious phase in one's life.

Without any doubt, at this phase, a person feels doubtful, awkward, weird, stressed, rigid, disappointed, self-degraded, and many more, which are completely unnecessary and are the byproducts of overthinking. It isn't a sin or an illegal aspect if a person starts getting attracted to another human being, especially same-sex people. As a result, if you are someone who claims to be straight but curious about romantic encounters with same-sex partners but still confused about whether you are bisexual or not, you must open yourself up to possibilities regarding exploring your bicurious personality. Hence, you need to know how to achieve that without giving too much thought.

  • Believe in yourself, in the process, in the concept of fluidity, and most importantly in the nature of attraction.

  • Communicate your curiosity by expressing your opinions and thoughts to the people to whom you get attracted without hesitating a bit but make sure you consider the complications and controversies. You must know whom to express and whom not to.

  • Be specific about your current sexual orientation and how you feel intrigued about exploring your fluidity further. Until and unless you get sexually engaged and sensually comfortable with both opposite-sex and same-sex partners, you will remain a bicurious person.

  • Never allow people to force you to accept that you are bisexual. Be clear about what you are and let people get along with your clarity. Sometimes people's opinions compel you to think that you are bisexual without even exploring that side.

  • You don't have to be erotically connected with people to be bi-curious. You can be that person who hangout with same-sex people on dates without having intimate experiences and can however remain a bicurious person.

  • Ask yourself or put yourself in a situation whether you get attracted to people of the same gender as yours emotionally in the search for love or physically in the sex search or romantically in the search of completeness in being with a person in every possible way.

  • Carnal pleasures can be fulfilled only when you open up about sexual encounters with same-sex people whom you want to have sex with, to perceive how it feels like. This induces you to explore your sexual curiosity and if you like it and extend it, there's a greater possibility that you come out as bisexual. But if you don't like it while exploring, then you solely remain as a bicurious person who just gets attracted to same-sex people without involving sex.

  • Go out on a date with your lesbian pals or gay pals whom you like to spend some time with and comprehend how the homosexual approach makes you feel.

  • Attend queer parties and queer carnivals to meet like-minded people who don't judge your exploration phase and help you figure out your sexuality.

  • Broadly, bicurious people are heterosexuals who fantasize about gay or lesbian sex encounters, who get fascinated by homosexual romance, and who always feel exciting and experimental in trying out people of the same gender romantically. So, your curiosity never puts your orientation at stake and never costs your identity. Instead, it provides you clarity and eradicates the confusion about your sexual attractions so that you can choose your partner wisely by being a modern mature adult. Therefore, you must never become a hurdle for your bicurious personality by involving both men and women as your options of romantic or dating partners.

  • The best tip is to take your desired partners of both genders on similar kinds of dates be it for movies, shopping, luncheons, dinners, vacations, or getaways. This will make you understand your rapport with your partners and enables you to decide with whom you feel the utmost comfort, care, and confidence. This exploration is all enough for you to justify your bicurious personality and make you realize whether you are bisexual or a heterosexual who is curious to interpret the homosexual side.

Own your curiosity and get along with the fluidity because that's the beauty of being a bicurious person.

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