Firstly, no one is inexpressive, it's just people, can't express their feelings out loud and clear because of various issues. But, we tend to categorize people who don't express their feelings much like others, under the roof of expressionless ones. People have various ways to express their emotions and convey them differently, and there's no regulation that everyone must be good at expressing feelings. Apart from all the other emotions, people bother much about expressing the emotion of love and everyone wants their partners to express love towards them through music, grand gestures, sophisticated proposals, weird adventures, and public display of affection.
Not every couple can manage to express their emotions dreamily. Unfortunately, a few people can never do such loud things to express their love. If you are dating an expressionless one, or if you got an inexpressive partner, you must be feeling different and kind of sad to hang out with a person who doesn't know how to express the emotion of love like all the other, dreamy and flashy couples out there. But here's the question? What matters the most to you; the person who loves you like no one else or the person who just expresses to show off your relationship? The inexpressive ones are the best to express the emotion of love in multiple ways without the need for materialistic and worldly things.
He may not utter those three magical words every single day to comfort you, instead he makes you feel loved by asking about your day and whether you had your food or not. If you are that clingy person who always wants to hear "I love you" hell a lot of times, then you can never understand the beauty of not uttering the phrase but feeling it. So, feel the love, instead of validating it with, just a phrase.
She may not be good at understanding your work, your job role, and work environment, but a truly loving partner never wants to interfere in your work issues to give you space and only involve when you ask for any suggestions or can keep your stress away by sharing the love. So, never berate your partner if she isn't expressive and involving like your colleague's spouses or partners. Just remember the support she is giving you to make you work peacefully without any tensions and that's love!
You can dream of having a boyfriend in the gay community who is ultimately expressive by uploading every single picture of yours and writing about your relationship in adorable phrases. But have you ever dreamt of a boyfriend who always takes a stand for you no matter what though the whole world is against your relationship and managing a love-life, in a discreet but happy way? We don't like to stay discreet though we feel happy with our partners. We need those expressive ones who are busy in seeing us through the camera lens but not through naked eyes! Even though your boyfriend is discreet and can't express the emotion of love because of various reasons, if you are happy and satisfied, don't think about anything else. Love is important than social media popularity.
Is your girlfriend making you feel nervous about her inexpressive attitude when it comes to revealing your lesbian relationship to her family or publicly coming out as a female homosexual couple? You have every reason to be tensed, but before that, do you trust your partner and what's important for you, the person, or the coming out status of one's sexuality? If she is allowing herself to be with you no matter what and making you get involved with her world including her family and friends, then you don't need to worry about your relationship. Because that's how she has already expressed her love to you by merging her life with yours. Don't ask more than that because you need to understand the limitations of a person too! Love is all about understanding.
Expressions lie in little things, not in grand gestures. An international vacation can make you feel happy and sophisticated but a career boost can make you feel independent and empowering. If your partner fails at taking you on a vacation because of some financial and personal issues, don't judge him/her for the efforts to make you feel loved. Who knows, he may be saving for your better future or she may want to invest in your career upliftment. Never blend materialistic pleasures with love; it sounds disgusting and feels ridiculous to be with a person who measures love with grand gestures.
Not everyone can kiss you in public, groove some salsa moves while clubbing, tell poetry about you in house parties, sing songs for you in karaoke nights, write books to dedicate to you, play guitar in get-togethers and propose you in the middle of the roads. These are such extremes of expressing love. There is no wrong if a person can't do any one of the above-mentioned gestures. There is wrong if a person behaves completely differently after attempting such public gestures to express love. Will you be happy if your partner sings a beautiful song for you to impress your surroundings and behave like a moron in between the four walls and act strange?
But an inexpressive one remains calm, sober, and subtle throughout your life. If your partner felt shy to express his love and took years to say those magical words, who always hesitate to do something big like others but still treat you like a glass doll, then mark it, you are blessed with a person who is less expressive but more loving. Generally, the inexpressive ones maintain the same graph from beginning to end. They don't fluctuate, and they don't like to express their emotions publicly, instead, they know how to treat you well when you are in public or when you are with them.
Never date a person or never fall for the one, who behaves differently in different places. It is okay if you date a person who doesn't touch or likes to hold your hand in public but it is never okay to date a person who degrades you by insulting in every possible way, sometimes being expressive is also hard to digest. Do you think a person who can climb a building for you to express his love, can't raise his hand on you when something wrong happens?
So, try noticing the efforts your inexpressive partner does for you. They may be, little, simple, and sometimes invisible, but treat them as important and try to value them. Your partner may not give you a Goodnight kiss before sleeping but see whether you are covered under a blanket when you wake up, especially when you didn't know when and where you fell asleep. The expression of love lies in little things a person does for one's partner without mentioning words.