Things to know and do, if you are planning for a group gay travel...
Solo traveling is good to appreciate yourself and to take your me-time and to have your own space. Traveling with your partner makes you explore the strength of your relationship by understanding each other and exploring together. But traveling in groups, especially with like-minded people is one of a kind adventure, everyone must experience it at least once in their lifetime. And what's better than being in a group in which everyone realizes, recognize, value, motivate and encourage the exploration of your gender identity and sexual orientation without any space for judgmental criticism? Hence, if you are a homosexual, be it, gays or lesbians, you must make sure to have group gay trips at least once a year.
But the more the people involved, the more any trip becomes complicated and difficult to handle various kinds of personalities in one place. So instead of encountering bitter experiences without knowing the pros and cons of group travels, you must know how to get along and what to do if you are one among the group of gays who want to explore the world!
Firstly, take out your typical individual mindset and try to listen and adjust accordingly. Unlike your solo trip, you are not going to be the end decision-maker. Secondly, never include your partner in your gay group or lesbian gang. This is one of the mistakes many couples do. If you want to go for a vacation, you better do it as a couple instead of getting tagged along with a bunch of random homosexuals. That's a bad idea indeed. So, you must be ready with your open mindset, flexible personality, adjusting capability before signing up for a group gay travel. This way, you can embrace your trip with the utmost freedom and no restrictions. Meanwhile, ask your partner to plan a trip with his or her pals. (if you are in a relationship)
You can have two types of group gay trips. One: joining some random homosexuals if you want to explore a place with strangers and experience some adventures alone. Two: planning with a bunch of gay couples. In this case, you can tag your partner with you as it is all about exploring a place with other gay couples. It's kind of a group date thing but includes traveling stuff. Traveling with strangers is exciting and experimental. Traveling with other known couples is romantic and thrilling. Try both the types and experience the wanderlust.
Prefer a place where you can spend some quality time without disturbing others and also without getting disturbed by others. Remember, you are a group of homosexuals and you need to maintain the decorum which shouldn't affect the harmony of the typical heterosexual society. Focus on your exploration instead of getting involved in unnecessary protests. Discover a place where you can happily chill out without hiding your personality.
There is no mandatory that every gay group has homosexuals who are out and proud. A few people are comfortable in their closeted status. So, respect them and plan accordingly without crushing other groupies feelings. Just because you are open, it doesn't mean the other closeted groupies must listen to your extroverted opinions. Sometimes you need to understand and adjust according to other people, that makes a journey happy and peaceful.
Book a private beach or a private resort together. Hire a mini ship that exactly fits your group size for a peaceful cruise. Look out for an open place near mountains and lakes for exotic camping. Manage to get a forest house so that you can experience the thrill together by spending a night in the woods. Or simply rent a farmhouse with a pool to chill out in the gayest way. Your place must speak the size of your group and must sound the volume of your gayety. Picking up the ideal spot is crucially important for a group of gays to explore nature, their orientation, and a place.
Speaking of places, do not go behind the places which are most happening in a particular season. If you are planning for a group-gay trip, always travel to places in the off-season. This way you can reduce your expenses and also can restore your peace of mind. Because, if you go places in the happening season, you can't appreciate that place completely and you always get disturbed by judgmental people no matter what. Of course, you visiting Goa in the summer and visiting it at other times is different. But you can always visit a place in the happening times alone or exclusively with your family or your partner right!
Group sex is one idea that pops up in everyone's mind when it comes to group gay trips. That's fun indeed but please make sure that you are safe while performing orgies and most importantly don't get into legal troubles for open gay sex sessions. Never forget to make someone guard the whole orgy location so that he or she may alert the whole group. Being experimental and adventurous is fun and fine, but you should never overdo it and fall into risks. Private resorts, deep forests, far away abandoned beaches, farmhouses, poolside are the best locations to organize some group gay sex sessions!
Never get drained up financially. Be practical enough and get along with a group of gays that you can handle in monetary terms. You can't maintain a budget of 10k bucks and expect to travel with filthy rich gays who stay on cruising ships doing nothing but partying all day all night. So, consider your budget and talk to the people who can understand and get along with your financial terms. You don't have to hesitate to keep your budget upfront with others to make sure you travel safely and securely without facing any financial obstacles. If you get crooked with your finances, you screw up big time emotionally and mentally. So, use your brain instead of heart here!
Though you are a group of homosexuals, everyone has their own individuality, mindset, approach, and opinions towards life, love, relationships, bonds, orientations, identities, and various topics. Don't get provoked or offended if you had to listen to something which you can't approve of. So, consistently maintain a neutral behavior. React when it is required and if you think you can't take it anymore just walk out of the discussion or ignore it to take some time and get back to your group again. Always remember to stick with your group regardless of rough patches and clashes of opinions. They get settled within some time. Don't carry or drag a particular feeling all along your trip. That gives bad vibes to the whole group!
The happiness of group gay trips lies in the campfire that set up in the woods or beachside or near a lake, where a bunch of people surround it with beer tins and talking about all the gay shit in the world by considering and scrutinizing every feeling of a fellow homosexual in the group. You can experience the totality of traveling if you explore the world with your gay group. These trips nurture your personality and flourish your sexual orientation by boosting up the confidence in you because you see a group of people who think, act, behave, feel and experience the way you do. Simple!
