Hooking up is common in any community, be it straight or LGBT. It's all about counting on orgasms every single time. Hookups are getting common day by day. It's like having food daily. Of course, Sex is a basic necessity for human beings. But, in the heat of the moments, people are forgetting their own personalities and behaving like sexually desperate to end up having no orgasm for the day. Nowadays, people are starting their relationships with hookups. Because, sex is becoming the utmost priority for people in relationships.
What to say about this Millennial era? Can't really help it, though. So, when we can't change the era, we should get changed according to it. In the Gay community, this hookup word is very commonly used and practiced one too. Indeed, many of them have converted Dating apps to Hookup apps, because hardly people know the difference between those two words. But many gay men fail at these hookups in a very bad way because of many reasons. And these are the reasons which indeed depress these gay men, especially Gay tops mentally and physically too.
Anxiety and Curiosity: Always expect less from your partner, especially when you are going to meet a stranger for the first time. Expectations lead to disappointments. Disappointments lead to disinterests. Yes, if you expect more from the other person whom you are going to hook up with, be it intimacy, respect and closeness. If you don't get what you expect for, you will end up feeling disinterested in the sex date. Because, according to human psychology, anxiety increases the curiosity, and if the curiosity levels don't reach your curious mind, you end up feeling anxiety and sometimes, you feel like ending up the date soon or you may call it off then and there too. So, please don't expect more.
Desperation: That feeling of not having sex for ages has been totally indescribable. All the hormones rush in the body to release the excess testosterone levels by hooking up with someone. Biologically, these testosterone makes you lose your control of your mind. You end up act