Have you ever thought about why you constantly fall for the wrong people and end up dealing with the toxicity of your dating partners? It is annoying sometimes to see yourself in situations that don't befit your personality but those become inescapable because of your naivety in choosing the right person to date. After messing things up constantly in your romantic life, you may even start blaming yourself for being involved with such toxic people in your life. But does self-blame helps? It demotivates your zeal toward love and deranges your dating lifestyle.
After losing your self-esteem, self-respect and self-love, you will end up getting addicted to retaining toxic relationships by agreeing to whatever comes in your romantic life no matter how toxic your partner behaves. Gradually this makes you feel satisfied with the unhappiness scenario in your romantic life and when that happens, you completely become numb in terms of love, respect, trust, passion, affection and attention. Hence, you must know a few things that alert you from not getting addicted to such toxicity.
You start ignoring the red flags in your relationships even though they are quite evident due to fear of losing your partner and also fear of not finding love again ahead.
You remain distressed, discontent and dissatisfied all the time, but never complain about it and in turn, try to adjust to the situations that demean and devalue your existence in your relationship.
You praise your partner regardless of his/her disgusting treatment of you and you think that's love and you feel that your partner deserves to be forgiven all the time even though you get hurt every single moment in your relationship.
You unknowingly love narcissism and fall for intense narcissists who are egoistic to the core and deeply self-obsessed. After dealing with so many narcissists in your life without trying to get rid of them and always getting dumped by them as a piece of trash, you still search for love in narcissists. Don't you think you are addicted to toxicity?
You simply try to suppress your urge to confront or fight against all the odds in your relationship by thinking that you may lose an argument and maybe the whole relationship.
You also try your level best to say nothing to your near and dear regarding the toxicity in your romantic life because you think it is not a big deal and quite unnecessary to share private things even after getting badly treated in between the four walls of your bedroom. You somehow skip the topics of love and relationship whenever you hang out with your people because you feel nothing.