Not beautiful interiors, exotic decor, regal chandeliers, expensive cars, too many servants, countless wardrobes and endless food. Even if you provide your partner with all these things or if you both work together to gain all the luxuries in your life to lead a sophisticated lifestyle, still you won't feel at home with your partner if you miss a few basics yet utmost crucial things in your romantic bond. A house remains a place where a home represents an emotion. Hence, you need to appreciate a few feelings inside out to make your relationship feel like home!
A healthy laugh is something no one can deny any day and if your partner gets that from you, it is way more precious than gifting expensive things every single day. After devoting a few years together, many couples lose the spark of being spontaneously fun-loving people. Instead of attending stand-up comedy shows together, you can make fun of each other whenever it is possible in between your daily routines to feel that you both remain as that crazy couple who can bring smiles to each other faces instantly without trying much. Don't neglect that fantastic side of you.
Completing the sentences:
Not literally though. If you truly understand your partner, you gradually become telepathic in your relationship and it's another amazing factor to understand your partner better. Here completing the sentences is all about undertaking things for your partner before he/she requests you. You don't have to book a huge banquet hall to throw a bash for your partner. Giving a hot bag for your partner to relieve cramps, making your partner's bed before he comes and crashes in it, preparing your partner's favourite recipe to cheer up her day, planning a getaway as a holiday break before your partner is about to ask and many more little things in the form of tiny efforts you portray to show that you understand your partner better than anyone else.
Peace of mind:
To feel at home, your partner should walk into your abode without thinking twice about getting inside and having your company in between the four walls. That's a very important factor. Of course, not all days are good but if you can make your partner feel welcome even on a bad day regardless of issues you both encounter as a couple, you can survive that relationship for a very long time with no doubt. It can be attained only when there's peace at home even after having crazy fights and arguments. It's difficult but not impossible.
After having a passionate commitment in the initial days of the relationship, glitches arise in a couple and in the process of overcoming those emotional and mental hurdles there's a chance for a person to lose one's consciousness of compassion and empathy. You only lose them if you consider your partner for granted. If your partner doesn't find such compassionate empathy from you, then there is no point in being in a relationship. Whom do you expect your partner must go to in the first place when he/she feels low? It must be you all the time!
A five-storey villa with 10 bedrooms doesn't define your relationship. A 1BHK apartment with your partner's loving things is more than enough for you to feel your relationship like home. It's not about the space and accommodating a hundred guests by hosting exotic events, it's all about making sure your partner feels comfortable enough by adjusting with you even if it takes sharing that small space with family and friends. It all comes when both partners adjust to each other's lifestyle scenarios without dreaming about unachievable things. What else do you need than having a loving partner beside you? A shade of a tree can make you feel like a royal palace if you have an understanding and adjusting partner in your romantic relationship.
A shoulder to lean on:
Basically, it's YOU. If you want your partner to make your relationship like home, you must be appealing enough to let your partner share one's distress, dissatisfaction and disappointments with you so openly better than sharing happiness and joy. Anyone can say a piece of happy news and spend a happy day easily in a relationship with one's partner but a person hesitates a bit to share a piece of bad news or to tell about a rough day. Your partner must come to lean on your shoulder without resisting one's emotions and feelings. This happens only when you foster a stable impression of handling any kind of news, situation and consequences.
Until and unless you bring the balance to your relationship in every possible way, your partner never becomes comfortable enough to share everything under the sky. Your balanced mindset, balanced lifestyle, balanced romantic attractions, balanced physical and psychological health are more important for you to excel individually in your relationship so that your partner can trust you always without giving much thought to how you perceive, understand, analyse, scrutinize and conclude any particular situation that relates to your relationship as a couple. If you gain this balance, you don't need to worry about your partner because automatically your loved one feels you and your relationship at home!
Sophisticated elite vibes can be created easily if you earn money like crazy but you can never create homely vibes if you don't put yourself and your efforts into your relationship. So choose wisely!