Things that make you believe that your dating partner is perfectly normal...

Being normal nowadays is a rare thing, especially in terms of dating. Finding a person who is nice without any underlying conditions in the queer community is something out of common. Of course, people must be nice but at the end of the day, the definition of being nice changes from person to person. In a queer dating scenario, if you get someone who can understand you completely and make some efforts to treat you the way you deserve to be treated, it is a big thing. In simpler words, finding a perfectly normal partner is like getting a true soulmate.




Few aspects make a person completely normal with zero complications but you need to realize, recognize, observe and notice such aspects that make you believe that the person you are dating currently befits the concept of normality. Keeping aside the generalized opinions of people around and typical societal norms against the queer community, almost every queer person wants someone normal instead of people with too many extra add-ons, complications, and implications. Even though a person is controversial, edgy, extraordinary, and too much to handle, some aspects make that person also a normal partner on whom you can rely.


If a person collapses all your typical negative judgments soon after, you talk, meet, date, and even get into a serious relationship, then yes, that person is nice. Don't be egoistic, just see how the person has evolved and escalated one's image in your mind. Isn't it nice to have someone who brings positivity around you by crushing your negative approaches, thoughts, and impressions? If that happens in your dating life, your partner is simply nice!



If your friends and family easily fell in love with your partner, then yeah be proud of your choice because most of the time, your pals and cousins judge way too much when you show someone you date. Out of everything, if your partner is someone whom your mom would like, then yeah your partner is perfectly normal.


Even though your partner is not highly educated or studied abroad, if he/she makes a nice living, leads an affordable lifestyle, is completely well settled without any financial restrictions, then yeah your partner is normal and truly inhabited. If you need someone rich, spends a lot of money on you, and leads a lavish lifestyle, then you surely miss out on the aspect of normality. Money is never a priority for normal people; it's always relations and people that matter the most for them.