Things not to do in the sensual heat of the moment -NSFW
It's either anger or excitement, which leads a person to forget about the past and future consequences by only focusing on the present and nothing else. If you encounter such a situation then it's your heat of the moment. Generally, people don't think about anything else except to satisfy their emotions and this is why people commit mistakes, feel guilty and regret, face unnecessary and unpredictable consequences for the actions they commit during such enraging situations.
Sensually we all get into such heat of the moment situations with our intimate partners and most of the time, we rush things up or get rushed by others to finally end up in a bad state. Hence, an actively participating sexual person must remember a few things in the form of ethics, rules, and regulations during sex, especially when you realize that you are getting trapped by the sensual heat of the moment.
Even though you participate in sex with your partner's approval and the sex becomes consensual, you must maintain a few limitations before experimenting with things in bed. Some people feel uncomfortable doing a few sensual adventures and when they tell you before acting on them, please listen and respect their likes and dislikes. If your new dating partner doesn't like to get penetrated before getting emotionally connected with you, respect it, instead of behaving like a pervert and making your sexual partner feel disgusted.
Always remember, there is a huge difference between convincing and forcing. You can convince your partner to try a new sex position or to try a sexual fetish but you can't force your partner to do things which you like to do. Consensual sex is all about agreeing mutually to get physically and sensually engaged. If it's not then, it's molestation and rape, regardless of any gender. Don't commit crimes in your sensual heat of the moment.
Wildness in sex is intense and hardcore. Everyone likes to get wild but in those sensual situations, one doesn't realize future consequences. Bondage, Sadism, and Masochism, are some of the wild concepts of sex everyone likes to explore. It is okay to know how it feels like to be submissive or mastering to our partners. But while committing such sexual adventures, you must always be in control.
Try to analyze your behavior psychologically. Sexual role-play is interesting, but if you intensely get into them, then there are chances that you may hurt your partner. You must be careful while using ropes, handcuffs, nipple clamps, whips, leather, and rubber bondage material. Always make sure, that your partner is comfortable in handling such stuff. Porn is way different from reality. Unlike porn, you don't have a whole crew to save you if you end up failing at your sexual adventures with your partner. So, don't be a fool in such sensual heat of the moments.
Did your condom get torn off during your intercourse? Have you paused your sex and changed it or else you just continued without changing? This is a rare situation but one of the most common sensual situations. Many of us barely realize those torn off condoms, because we don't like interrupting those sensual moments. We get trapped in the heat of the moment, and we recklessly strike off all the future consequences just to feel the present pleasure. Your girlfriend may get pregnant, your boyfriend may get infected or you may get infected with HIV in return if your sexual partner is positively affected with AIDS.
Who doesn't like bareback-sex? Everyone likes to feel that thick and big penis by taking it deep inside the anus or vagina to attain orgasmic nirvana. But you can only do this if you have a complete idea of your partner's sexual health and if you are constantly with one sexual partner. If you have multiple sex partners and like to hang out sensually with random strangers, then forget about embracing bareback sex. Because this does good for you and the other person too!
Most of the homosexuals, because of their lifestyle choices and sexual experiments of having multiple partners, are more prone to sexually transmitted diseases. And these occur mostly in such sensual heat of the moment situations. We like to explore sensually when it comes to random strangers we meet at parties, queer events, carnivals, and sometimes while traveling. In such sudden engagements, we fail to think about the further consequences out of erotic excitement we carry. So, please make sure that you have oral sex or anal sex with the utmost safety and precautions.
Quickies are fun, but not every time. Some people like to have oral sex encounters during parties and other events. Do you know that most of the STDs cause due to oral sex encounters because it's easy and convenient? Giving a blow job is quicker than getting penetrated, especially when it is a quickie. In such sensual heat of the moment, we don't consider using a condom or seeking our partner's sexual health information, because we feel it as unnecessary and come to the conclusion that it isn't needed at all.
If you think that you will miss a chance if you ask your partner regarding his/her sex-medical history, then there are high chances of falling into health risks. Why feel guilty and regret if you know that a condom and a question, can make you feel confident about your sensual encounters.
Public sex encounters are illegal in many countries, including kissing in public. It's okay to break the stereotypes but in the sensual heat of the moment, don't try to break the law and end up behind bars. Make sure you are not surrounded by the public and not causing any disturbance to anyone before coupling in public spaces. The adrenaline rush may make you feel motivated to try public sex, but what if someone makes a video out of it? Can you handle the consequences? If you can, then you can have sex in public spaces!
Do not force, do not encourage if someone forces you, do not assume that everything will be fine without a condom, do not hesitate to say NO if you aren't comfortable, do not cross your limits, do not get into an unnecessary situation, do not trust someone's words so easily, especially strangers. No one tells you that he/she is having sexual infections, if you aren't sure about the other person, always use precaution in the form of condoms as a safety measure, even when you have oral sex too!
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