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The reality check for porn in your gay sex life! -NSFW

To most people porn or adult movies however play a crucial role in looking out for some sensuality virtually be it for stress-relieving-watch, masturbation, acquiring sex knowledge and exploring various kinds of sex behavioural patterns, fantasies and fetishes. There could be partiality in society during heterosexuals, but one can't complain about the parity of the availability of gay porn online because you can find many gay porn videos online on various official websites, out and proud with steamy sensual adult gay actors who are drool-worthy. The best part is one can discover every type of gay tribe according to one's taste and preference but the sad part is people don't perceive the reality of porn videos.




Watching porn isn't a terrible thing at all as it induces one's sex life and makes a person explore the extremes of one's sexuality and sexual desires. It has both good and bad effects on a person's sexual health and one must know how to balance the involvement of porn in one's gay sex life!




The constructive side:


  • The visual presentation of sex education through motion pictures invariably develops a person's understanding adequately about sex.

  • One can adopt techniques and tactics about sex positions, sex roles, role plays, and sex fetishes.

  • The exclusivity of homosexuality in gay porn makes a person feel the normality of being gay and appreciating gay sex.

  • Porn consistently acts as an easy turn-on to any person especially when one tries hard to get hard and gays aren't an exception for this scenario.



  • Gay and bisexual pornstars have their stardom in the adult movie industry of various countries. People who feel this stream is aspirational may look up to them, their acts and their moves through porn. If a person considers it as creative artwork, then getting inspired by porn stars isn't an embarrassing thing at all.

  • There's always a story added in high-graded gay porn movies and it adds extra entertainment for people especially the ones who look out for some drama even in adult movies. (pun intended)

  • As mentioned earlier, masturbation becomes interesting if a person gets along with one's desirable gay porn plot which may include a threesome, orgy, fetishes, particular gay tribe with dressing patterns.




  • The versatility of gay adult actors encourages a person to try out shifting sex roles as a part of experimental sex and may try out something new in bed instead of being restricted to one particular sex role.

  • Indeed, gay adult movies advise a person to be fluid enough to both receive and give sensual pleasure with one or multiple sex partners by broadening one's ideology of sex.

  • Gay porn movies regulate the importance of safe sex patterns even in oral sex, anal sex, and shifting between multiple partners, by showing the usage of condoms, lubes, and sex toys under safe sex health measures.




The destructive side:


  • Needless to say, every aspect of this world has both pros and cons including porn especially when everyone is quite aware of how the elements of entertainment may help and also may ruin a person's perceptions.

  • Porn isn't completely real. It is fictional with real people involved who take enormous breaks in between to picture the whole sex session. So if you think a gay couple can have sex for straight one hour as they show in porn, then you will go wrong because that's not accurate.

  • The stamina the gay actors portray in porn comes with various additional intakes of poppers, viagra, delay sprays, and strength-oriented self-maintenance and regime. Hence, you should never compare yourself or expect your partner to have ultimate stamina like porn actors.




  • If you include watching gay porn in your regular daily life routine, one day it becomes an addiction and it may go out of hand sometimes.

  • Masturbating to porn all the time causes you to feel difficulty in getting erected or turned on when you try to have sex with your partner. And your addiction to porn leads you to the state where you feel like jerking off to the porn even after experiencing a healthy orgasm with your sex partner and it makes any partner feel odd and bad for sure.

  • The zeal for having sex reduces gradually if you watch porn regularly and masturbate because you end up losing interest in enjoying sex with your intimate partners. Ultimately you start loving and self-satisfying yourself through watching porn which does no good but bad for your sexual health.



  • Because sex isn't about oozing out your sensual fluids from your body or pleasuring your genitals whenever you need. It is more about intercourse that relieves a person from pressures out of sexual desires, and that can only be fulfilled by another person not by yourself all alone.

  • The assumptions of fetishes and fantasies you have in your mind may not match in real like the way they portray them in adult movies.

  • One must understand those porn movies are materialistic more than realistic. They are produced to earn money by cashing out people's sensual desires.

  • Considering porn actors as inspirational idols is fine up to some level but it shouldn't exceed the limitations where you end up spending a lot of money on building bodies and taking steroids to gain the figure of a porn star.



  • Understand the borders of comparing yourself to any gay porn star, especially in terms of the sizes of their penises and butts. You must perceive the aspect of how the gay porn industry works on people who only have huge dicks and asses or muscled bodies or bodies of a particular type who can pull off the adult sex content.

  • Comparing yourself to gay porn actors leads you nowhere but makes you feel distressed and disappointed.

  • Bareback sex sessions can be conducted in front of the cameras only after considering the sexual health statuses of actors. Every porn movie comes with a particular disclaimer regarding sexual health measures. Therefore don't try having bareback sex with every random sex partner you meet without knowing the sexual health status of other people.



  • In the mode of pleasure, don't commit grave mistakes by exploring the wrong side of porn and not being able to understand the reality and the kind of measures any production house take before getting two or more individuals in bed to have sex in front of cameras.


Treat porn as a piece of entertainment to watch once in a while to relieve your sensual stress instead of entertaining every unknown aspect of porn to affect your material, psychological, mental, emotional, and even personal factors in your life.



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