The importance of including "Music" in your relationships!
Are you one of those people who struggle hard to explain one of your delightful situations and just scroll through your romantic playlist to let others understand and sometimes let yourself feel good by playing a particular song you are attached to, related with and have tons of memories with every lyric and every tune? Well, then you must have given a huge space for music in your love-life or relationships. If you can't relate to the above situation, then it's high time for you to welcome music in your bonds and try making some memories, happy and sad!
Yes, music is all about appreciating your soul with various kinds of emotions. When it comes to these romantic, intimate, and erotic emotions, music plays a vital role in balancing out the emotions. Music has the power to handle you in every possible way but only when you put yourself ahead of anything and anyone else!
Relationships are sometimes hard and unmanageable. You may get second thoughts of getting out of a relationship several times. You may feel bad for your partner. You may feel sad about your partner's behavior towards you. You may feel disgusting, irritated, invalid, and worthless. These all feelings are temporary, and only a few people can overcome these and get back to their relationships without affecting their committed bonds. After our well-wishers' suggestions, only music can make us stable in our relationships! Are you wondering, how?
Okay, travel back to your first date and try to ruminate the song that was running back in the cafe you met your partner for the first time or the music that was going on and on while you were in the middle of your cozy candlelight dinner date. You surely remember bits and pieces of the music when you met your loved ones for the first time. Because we normally don't forget things which make us relive those special moments with our special people! If you can't recollect, don't freak out!
You must have watched a lot of movies in your initial dating stages. Watching movies, roaming around listening to songs, hosting house parties, attending music concerts, getting sloshed at various bars and pubs, planning out for lunches and dinners, are some of the common things, every dating couple does during their beginnings. Because all these activities make a person perceive the other person, in the current dating scenario. If you are an old-school person, you must have surely chilled out at tea spots, cafes, and even balconies if you are in love with your neighbor. While doing all these things to know each other, you surely encounter, experience, and embrace any particular song or album or even appreciate any music artist together.
These particular songs you come across during your beginnings, won't leave you till you die. They stay happily in your cerebral capacity and they never run out of your space. They inevitably make you cherish a particular moment. Regrettably, some songs may even pinch you emotionally and may drain your soul, especially the music which you used to embrace with your ex-partners or lovers or spouses. Music keeps you alive, though your feelings are dead for a person.
We all like music. We have diverse tastes in music. Just because you and your partner don't get along in terms of music, don't ignore the innocence of music in your relationship. If you both are music lovers, you undoubtedly have a remarkable relationship to flourish further. If you are not a music lover, try feeling for a particular tune or at least listen to lyrics of a particular song carefully, you surely can relate yourself to any song. And this can make you remember a phase of your life, no matter how old you become and no matter whether you end up with a different person.
Feeling for a song and reliving every memory which is entwined with a particular person's presence in your life, is one of the beautiful things to experience. Not everyone can recall every single person but you can make it happen with the help of soulful music. You may have a lot of dating partners; you must have been in a relationship with many people, your exes count could be too much to handle, but you can remember every single person you met if you could tag a particular song or album or a favorite music artist of your exes.
Moving on is not about forgetting the past. It's not getting affected though you relive the past and cherish the memories. Music also helps you to come out of your breakup situations or your ex-partners. If you listen to a particular song and suddenly you feel a tinge of happiness or sadness because of your memories, just relive that phrase of your life, sing-along, and pass on a smile. This supports you to not get affected by your previous experiences, especially if you had some painful breakup story attached to a particular song. Close your eyes, feel the song, shed a tear if you want, and walk forward!
If you think a particular song irks you off or makes you, upset, just because you got memories of a particular person, don't listen to it, purposefully. But if you accidentally come across that particular song, don't escape. Face the music and deal with your emotions. This will make you stronger. Never hate music. Hate a person, that's fine!
Because a person may abandon you but a song will never leave you. Build up memories with a song, sync your soul with a tune, relate your life with a bunch of lyrics, be philosophic with a poetic phrase in a song, tell your friends, siblings, and people around you, that how a piece of particular music, or a song or an artist is so important to you. Introduce a song to your partner and make him/her listen to it. Introduce the same song to your kids by giving them your love story along with it. With music, you can still make a presence in a person's life, regardless of your existence!
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