The deprived and divergent feelings of a person in a long-distance relationship!
This is for someone inside you who is insecure and over-possessive and hazardous to one's self and to others, especially to the person who loves you regardless of the distance you are far away from him/her. Why do you act timid about your feelings on your love and why it becomes difficult for you to digest the whole long-distance scenario? Why you act so weird and stalk your partner and fill the toxicity in your relationship? Where all the trust has gone? Where all the love has disappeared? Are you understanding capabilities diminishing day by day just because you are not beside your partner? How can you misunderstand someone whom you trusted as no one could ever? Since, when these changes are affecting your relationship and since when you became such a moron in accepting your partner the way he/she is? Is this all about your tangent of emotions and divergence in your feelings? Are you getting badly influenced to degrade your partner with your unnecessary assumptions?
It's understandable, that a person wants to strike all these questions to their partner who is giving sleepless nights by becoming a nightmare every single day with his/her behavior. Some of us transform altogether into a different person after some point in the process of working out the long-distance relationship. Some act as stalkers and some act as perverts and some as complete cruel creatures. Sometimes the overdose of love slowly converts into dominance and that dominant behavior eradicates the whole love, emotion from a person and at this point, a lover becomes a person who dominates his/her partner to the core and thinks that it's love and care. That's a pure form of toxicity. The affection gets substituted with suffocation. The curiosity gets substituted with ignorance. The love gets substituted with anger, disgrace, and disappointments.
We all get deviated at one point in any kind of relationship we are in. Unlike other kinds, the long-distance relationship must be tackled in a different way with the utmost care, love, affection, kindness, respect, patience, and many more appealing traits. But most of us give less time to all these positive emotions and only gets concerned about the amount of time our partner gives us, the assumptions of our partner checking out others, the doubt of cheating on, the stubbornness of making one's partner listen to his/her words no matter what. These negative emotions rule a person when a person allows him to reign his mind and his feelings. And if once, that divergence arises in a long-distance relationship, things become worse and worse to the core which leads to either breaking up the paths or sometimes not returning back forever.
Respecting each others' space is an important factor in any relationship, but people keep on invading each other's space too much that they couldn't handle anymore and there will be situations where a person should understand the other person's mind regarding his involvement in a relationship. For suppose, if a person is not responding properly and giving weird excuses or try to explain something important about his/her feelings, then you must make sure whether your partner is really into you or into someone. Confirm it and just move on with your life because you can't get into someone's heart forcefully. But many of us, don't give a damn about what our partners think, we just rub our opinions on them and misunderstand them.
And there are few people who clearly cheat on their partners in a long-distance relationship. In these kinds of fragile situations, a person must act smart. Just as a matter of fact, check whether that person truly loved you ever or he just used you in every possible way or she just found someone better than you. No one will cheat in a relationship until and unless you are not good at maintaining your relationship properly. If you act as if you don't care, you would be treated with utmost negligence in the end. That's how karma works. So, these kinds of diverging feelings arise in a long-distance relationship. It depends on you how you tackle them. If you wish to be in a toxic relationship, you end up hurting yourself and degrading your personality in front of any undeserving person and if you yourself act as a toxic one, check yourself twice and compare your personality in your initial days of love and the current situation you are in. You will get the answer for yourself and if still, your venomous nature excites you more than your love, then you are useless for being in love and being in any kind of relationship.
People who strive to keep their divergent feelings on the track are the ones who try hard to be in love no matter what and the people who go with the wrong flow by conflicting their feelings, always go the opposite direction to love, which is hatred and that's poisonous than a snake bite. It totally depends on the path you choose. Keep faith in the person you love because that's the bare minimum anyone could ask for in a long-distance relationship.
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