The beauty of making love - anti NSFW
Come, let's have sex!
Come, let's make love!!
Which statement of these is more enticing and romantic? Only a few of you can answer this question because most people don't have a minimum idea of appreciating the difference between having sex and making love. Because, for them, the penetration and having a satisfying orgasm is all about love. Of course, sex is the ultimate form of showing love by presenting your naked bodies in front of the person whom you love the most in the form of submission under the name of the emotion of love and lust. In the process of satisfying each other's bodily sexual pleasures, many couples are failing in understanding the beauty of making love.
A couple in a perfect and understanding relationship hardly makes love once a while, because their active sexual interests and charismatic bodies make them indulge in each other sexual physical way than sexual emotional way! Having sex is a very easy thing and many products activate, regenerate, energize a person's hormonal zeal towards physically engaging in another person's body. But making love is a bit difficult and there are no products available in the market to make a couple witness the pristine experience of lovemaking.
In sex, there are hell lot of chances for a person to experience messed up situations and go through unnecessary disappointments because of the performance anxiety, short periods of lasting in bed and not willing to commit sexual adventures. These are very common sex struggles a couple goes through in their relationship and it is to be noted that, there are many couples, who break their paths to get out of the relationship just because of the poor sexual knowledge of their partners. Yes, it is true and even many divorces and many illegitimate affairs come into the picture just because of Sex. For most people, having sexual pleasures is one important need in a relationship and unfortunately, these people are the ones who suffer from their future consequences like loneliness, addictions, and many other mental diseases.
If a person treats, sex as an important element to make a relationship last long and takes it further, then that relationship fails for sure at any point in time. On the contrary, some couples come to know the reality of getting engaged with their partners physically with all their emotions bonded together to form a strong relationship. And this can be experienced by a couple who understand the value of making love.
For your kind information, having sex and making love is the same, but with a little variation in the aspect of dealing with the process. Have you ever shed tears when the person whom you love the most was right inside you, just because you miss him/her for a long time? Have you ever smiled through your eyes when your partner was sweating right above your face? Have you ever kissed on your partner's forehead when he/she was unable to perform just to make them calm and feel it was okay? Have you ever kissed breathlessly for hours and hours without penetrating each other? Have you ever thrown your partner aside because of your mood swings, but approached him/her after a few seconds realizing you might have disappointed your partner? Have you ever asked your partner to stay with you to smell and feel the skin after climaxing? Have you ever slept naked by sensing each other's skin for a whole day? Have you ever cuddled for hours and hours, just to feel the warmth of your partner and nothing more than that? Have you ever had sex with your naked eyes and, with your naughty smiles on your faces? Have you ever felt too much satisfied even though you didn't experience an orgasm?
Well, this is what making love is all about. The involvement of emotions dancing between two naked bodies while engaging with each other is making love. Regardless of the desires, satisfaction levels, fulfillment of pleasures, making love is all about embracing the person whom you love sexually in an emotional way. You will definitely won't go through all the emotions described in the questions mentioned earlier when it comes to sex. Because sex is all about getting into each other sexually in a physical way without the involvement of emotions of love.
Making love is not possible every single day. Sometimes the hormones of a person enrage him/her to just want a physical satisfaction to fulfill the sexual desires or wants. But, a couple must strive harder to make love, than to have sex. The bond between two people only gets strengthened if emotions get involved not the desires or physical touch. Sharing the warmth of two bodies is purely different from cooling down the sexual heat from two bodies. Isn't it right? Well, think about it and give it a try with all your heart and with all your love. This new year, you must try more than just having sex. Make love!!
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