Signs which let you know that you are just an option!
The dating scenario could be different from one person to another person. Some are intensely emotional and some are playfully materialistic. Everyone has their kind of approach regarding their dating life ethics and moves. You can't pass a judgment on anyone's dating life, but you can surely get to know whether you match the thoughts of the person you date and make sure whether you match with his/her ethics and moves. Regrettably, this is one of the classic mistakes most people commit in their dating life scenario. They don't realize what they are to the other person and everyone needs to recognize one's value in the mind of a person whom one dates.
No one likes to be treated as an option. We all crave becoming someone's priority. Love and relationship are chiefly about prioritizing a person out of everything. We don't date people whom we don't like and love, so, when you date, you need to be someone's priority, not an option. And a few signs undoubtedly make you recognize the position of yours in your dating partner's dating life!
If you feel that your love is being one-sided, then yeah, it's a sign that you are being considered as an option. Efforts are everything in a romantic bond and if you don't see them in your partner towards you either to impress you or to even realize your existence, then you are just an option in your partner's life.
If you remain the person who accomplishes everything in your relationship and also the one who adjusts regardless of how difficult you feel, then you are being taken for granted. This phenomenon can be seen only when you treat someone as just an option. If your partner doesn't show any interest in doing anything for you and also makes you feel as if you are his or her burden to deal with, every single day, it's not even a relationship!
A relationship must bring happiness, satisfaction, and charm to a person. If you miss any single element in your dating life, maybe you are with the wrong person who just doesn't consider you as a priority at all.
Are you hiding your relationship from everyone and the whole world? Does your partner constantly forces you to keep your bond as discreet? Do you people, meet very privately especially when no one sees you and most importantly in between the four walls? There are significant chances that you are just a dating option who is being used to fill the void of your dating partner's materialistic or emotional needs. Simple! A true relationship can't be caged.
If you consider your partner's friends and family like yours, and your partner doesn't even bother to know the important one's in your life, then you must check your value in your partner's mind. If he or she feels disinterested and doesn't show any kind of concern towards your kin and kith, then you are being mistaken to be his or her dating partner, maybe you are not!
Where there's a will, there is a way! And if your partner tells you hundreds of stories and lies every time you ask him to meet or ask her to meet you on a date, you can sense something suspicious and you surely end up knowing that you are just being treated as a dating option. A truly loving person always tries one or another way to find time to meet you, talk to you, and spend some time with you. If you find it difficult in meeting the person, you love, do you call it love?
Screw all the excuses and sorries your partner spill every single time you mention to expose your relationship to the world or when he or she constantly misses meeting your people or end up disappointing you even though your partner knows that particular element upsets you to the core. Don't believe the typical lies your partner tells to convince you. You are just being tricked as an option, my dear, wake up!
After every single issue, you end up having a sensual video call or end up including senseless sex, but with a twist of repetition of the same behavior. Instead of being fed up with a person who just treats you like a piece of meat and nothing else, accept that you are just being an option and come out of that opportunistic bond. Don't encourage such cheap perverts.
Does your partner always feel bored or show anger or disgust or feel embarrassed or suppress you when you want to do something you love? Well, these kinds of toxic people always treat others as options because they want to dominate people with their moods. So without any doubt, you can never be a priority.
Some intelligent pricks play the reverse game. To get you back to your original moods, they spill some sweet fake behavior to calm you down and the moment when you get back to normal, they play the reverse trick by acting disappointed and try to make you feel guilty for forcing him or her to be beside you all the time. A few self-owned clever idiots shower all their anger to make you shut your mouth so that you won't bother them again. Be aware of this brilliant way of escaping, these escapists always leave you as just an option and vanish within no time!
Please observe these signs and try to get rid of such toxic dating partners you, unfortunately, fall in love with. It's better to be sad for one day instead of making your whole dating life, a piece of tragedy! Most importantly, if you want to date someone who treats you as a priority, then search for someone who understands the value of your emotions and feelings!
