Searching for a needle in a haystack!

Idioms are indirect approaches for people to understand life because most of us cannot get the true meaning of life when it teaches us directly. Hence, the languages have developed to make people get what life trying to teach us. The title is one of such idioms which is used in many languages to simply convey people that some tasks are extremely difficult that you may fail at it.

If you don't believe, try dropping a small needle in the pile of dry grass and start searching for it. You will get to know the real meaning of this phrase because the experience makes you believe that it is actually, a tough task. Like, how it becomes difficult for a person to find true love out of millions of lies in a relationship. A true relationship requires the constraints of honesty and pure love. But how many of you think that you are truly in a true relationship?

Well, now that's a big question in front of you and obviously, there is no particular apparatus to measure the true love constraint in your so-called relationship. Hence, most of us opt to go with the flow of a romantic relationship. In the process, we may either lose interest in person or we may develop feelings for others, which is very common in humans. Searching for true love in a relationship is as difficult as searching for a needle in a haystack. You may find if you focus deeply, but it takes time and a lot of positive approach and confidence that you will find it at any cost. If you search for it, hopelessly, you may never find it.