Live out Loud...

Is LGBT community is Loud? What are your thoughts on this question? Well, the context of the word "Loud" here is all about, way of dressing, speaking, expressing and also the way of living. The lifestyle of people from the LGBT community is mostly considered as a Loud lifestyle from the society's point of view. What makes people think like that?

The bold lifestyle of the people of the LGBT community makes them consider homosexuals as Loud people. There is no bad in it actually. But people portraying it in a very negative way and many uttered statements like "They don't have to show off much about their sexual orientation". Trust me, I have heard hundreds of times personally. When I went deep inside the thoughts of those people who act as LGBT critics, I found few perceptions and assumptions, the crowd other than LGBT community has in their minds.

Being Loud can be considered mostly in a negative way, but indeed being loud is a positive vibe to the people in the current society. The LGBT community is Loud and I agree it to the core and will never regret accepting it as a fact. Indeed, I should feel grateful for being a part of this Loud LGBT community of the whole world. But what is the reason behind this LOUD tag with us? It's the society which has been suppressed since ages. Because, the LGBT community raise their voice every single time to prove the normality of abnormal tag given by the crowd to the people of the LGBT community. There are many reasons for a community to be portrayed as Loud. Well, in my words, I'm accepting that the LGBT community has been Loud just because of a few facts.

We are loud because we wear flashy, shimmery, glittery and gaudy clothes. We are loud because we can nail any kind of outfit on our bodies. We are loud because we won't feel ashamed of getting into each other's wardrobe regardless the gender. We are loud because we can wear heels and also we can rally on bare foot. We are loud because we shout to the top of our voices to enlighten and educate to uplift people and their mindsets regarding societal stereotypes and judgmental criticism. We are loud because we fight against all the odds to defend ourselves. We are loud because we become aggressive when someone questions our sexual orientations in a demeaning way. We are loud because we are rebellious. We are loud because we don't give a damn about what others think. We are loud because we love to live our lives in an independent yet struggling life. We are loud because we are confident enough to rule any industry with our skill set. We are loud because we do only what we love to do. We are loud because we care for each other no matter what kind of situation we face anytime. We are loud because we walk according to our own personality and portray it in a realistic way without faking. We are loud because we have sex at anytime and at anyplace. We are loud because we don't step back in the concept of love. We are loud because we love our families and partners in a same way and dream big about getting married to a same sex partner. We are loud because we kiss in public without any fear, shame and guilty to express our feelings. We are loud because we are expressive and zealous. We are loud because we are communicative and use a lot of hand gestures. We are loud because we are educated, well settled and creative too. We are loud because we are undiplomatic. We are loud because we are audacious and bold enough to cast ourselves naked. We are loud because we are rude to those people who tries to suppress us. We are loud because we are confident about our vivacious personalities. We are loud because we have the guts to reveal hidden truths and dark secrets of the society. We are loud because we are Powerful..!!

So, it's good being loud than being silent, because if we aren't loud, we are considered as slaves and have to face utmost criticism in every possible way for the mistakes we never do. Because, loving a person whom we like regardless gender is never a crime or mistake. To all the people who ask every person from the LGBT community, that's why they are loud, the answer is YOU. Because, you made us loud and powerful with the way how you judge, criticize, hate and oppress us. The more you suppress us, the more we become Ostentatious and Colorful too...

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