Let me start by clearing a simple yet realistic fact that Gay and Straight people are the communities belongs to the same gender, which literally mean that both gay and straight carry the manhood in their bodies and soul. No matter whether they are effeminate or non-effeminate, both gay and straight are considered as Guys! Please know this simple fact and act accordingly with the common sense.
I came across many people in dating apps mentioning that they aren't gays but guys. That one phrase annoys me like anything because that wholly showcase the utmost stupidity. Do you have straight friends who reacted in a weird way when you came out as gay? Obviously, every straight guy showers either disinterest or pity when a guy comes out as gay. That's purely common.
But why these straight guys show utmost levels of hypocrisy when it comes to gays and their behavior? Why do they ask such meanest questions on earth? The most common question is how two guys fuck each other? To all those straight assholes, we gays fuck and get fucked through assholes. I think your question is answered. Well, I will tell you how the straight guys portray their hypocrisy.
When a gay person reveals about his orientation to his straight companions or friends, they either accept it the way they are or else they start judging from the next minute. Thanks to all the straight guys who understand us, but to all the straight men out there who assume that every gay guy on earth would check you out just because of homosexuality, then you are purely wrong to the core. Because, homosexuality in gays is all about loving a man not all men in the world. So, don't think that every guy who comes out as Gay would check you out. Gay guys also maintain standards too. You must aware of them.
And don't treat it as a disease or anything which is abnormal. We don't need your pity. We also don't need your acceptance and support. We just share the information that we are interested in guys only. So, that from next time, you straight people won't act weird and ask heterosexual question. Understand it.
And to all the Gays out there, stop acting weird in front of these straight men and stop degrading yourself. Have some self respect and give some respect to other's choices and orientations too. Don't just flirt with every random guy you meet. Know their orientations and act accordingly. Because, the way how you react when a girl approaches you for sex is totally equal to the way how straight men react when a guy approaches them. So respect each other's orientation. It's all about the choice of sex and gender. Why don't you just calm down a bit and understand this simple fact.
Are you wondering for the aspect of hypocrisy here between Gay men and Straight Men? Till now I have expressed the inner thoughts and views of Gay men and Straight men about each other. But coincidentally and surprisingly, the level of hypocrisy arises in the same manner in both Gay men and Straight men. Want to know how?
Well, what if your sister or brother approaches you and come out as homosexual and ask for your acceptance or support? Out of 100, 90% people judge them like anything and pose hundreds of opinions and irritate them with thousands of questions. Ain't I right? Straight men who support their Gay friends and Gay men who are homosexuals by themselves, definitely try to suppress the homosexual feelings in their siblings and ask them to recheck themselves. Why do you become a Social Hypocrite when you support homosexuality or yourself a homosexual? Why can't you support your siblings and encourage them towards love. Are you afraid of the consequences? Are you afraid of the society? Most importantly, have you accepted yourself as you? Have you supported your homosexual acquaintances for name sake? Why there is a lot of hypocrisy arisen when your own people come out as Gay or Lesbian or Bisexual or Transgender? Why can't you accept them like the way you accepted others?
Do you still think that being homosexual is illegal and a crime. Do you treat homosexuality as a societal disease or against to the norms? When you really care for your own people like your siblings, cousins, family members, best friends, or who ever closer to you, one would really care about their emotions, feelings and love. So why do you have to think so much about it? Why do you become a social hypocrite and act as a hurdle for their orientations and choices?
For all the Straight Men, Love is all about feelings and emotions on a particular person regardless gender. So, respect the Word, Love and support your Gay acquaintances by accepting them the way they are instead of asking them to get diagnosed or changing them. And to all the Gay Men, embrace your sexual orientation and accept yourself first instead of striving hard to get accepted by people. Try to understand other people who have the same emotional feelings like you. Don't suppress them just because of the future consequences!
Take the hypocrisy out of you and act according to your choices by respecting others choices too.