Is being hedonistic, a reason for the recreational bisexuality?

If you google for the word hedonism, you will go mad in exploring the dark world of a hedonistic person, because it's all about gaining pleasures regardless of the pain and unfortunate consequences. Simply, a hedonistic person is the one who loves to get sensual pleasures under the influence of alcohol, drugs, and the party environment. Hedonism can be treated as a way of life by some people who are beyond open-minded and careless about further consequences of theirs and others' lives too. Altogether, a person who seeks short-term pleasures than long-term relationships!





You must be wondering what this has to do with bisexuality? No offense, but there is a closeted bisexual tribe, which is completely based on hedonism. Unlike homosexuals who get attracted to either men or women, bisexuals get attracted to both men and women. But most of them are closeted. Unfortunately, in India, very few of them came out as bisexual. There's another view for this closeted approach too, some people don't feel like coming out as bisexual, because for them, bisexuality is just a phase of exploration of carnal pleasures. Indeed, more like a recreation!


Have you ever been denied or rejected by a man after accidentally sleeping with him, after a huge concert night under the alcohol effect? If you are gay and if you have accidentally slept with a man and came to know that person is a bisexual but he comes with a simple excuse by saying "Sorry, it's just happened because of excessive booze" and strike off the whole night with one statement, yes, you met a recreational bisexual.




No sexual orientation can be treated as a recreation. But, unfortunately, the opposite always exists; like for and against. Some people treat the orientations as recreation. Bisexuality is one of those flexible orientations, which allow a man or woman, easily shift from one person to another person, like one man to another woman. Some take it as a challenging part of the reality behind sexuality whereas some take it as mere fun. Closeted bisexuals are more prone to portray their bisexuality as a recreation because sincere bisexuals are the ones who never degrade the value of their orientation.




Recreational bisexuals are more heterosexual and less homosexual. Bisexuality is a blend of both, hence according to a few studies, bisexuals are segregated based on their tilting mode of sexual orientations towards homosexuality and heterosexuality. So, if you have to consider this particular bisexual tribe under the regular bisexual tribes, then these recreational and hedonistic bisexuals belong to the heterosexual-leaning bisexuals. Yes, many terminologies included in bisexuality. More flexibility, higher the misleading terms!




This doesn't mean hedonism is a misleading one, but at the same time, it is not at all recommended too. This is a concept which must be handled exactly like parking your vehicle at your own risk. You want to sleep with someone under booze and drugs, then you must face the consequences which may affect your personal, ethical, social, and financial aspects! But do you think recreational bisexuals, can bring happiness to others, especially the people who keep trust in them in a blossoming relationship?