Here's everything about Strap-on sex ....

Do you know what a strap-on means? Something which is attached to a strap and can be handled as one complete object. Well, in terms of sex life, the strap-on is which comes with a harness or belt kind of material with an imitation of the human penis, which can be used by any person while penetrating anally or vaginally. One of the world's popular sex toys where many women purchase them to play with their partners in bed like wild cats. There's a world-wide revolving fact that lesbians use the strap-ons more than anyone else. Now, please don't wonder why? The simple fact is they aren't born with penises and yes, for penetrating their partners, they require artificial ones and that's completely fine.




Some ignorant people comment on this kind of sex adopted by lesbians. "If you are a lesbian and if you want to get penetrated, why don't you sleep with a man instead of a woman?" Listen, dear lesbians, it's high time you must shut these pricks mouths by telling them to eat real caterpillars instead of caterpillar sugar gummies as candies. Simple! This is the first rule of strap-on sex, be confident, clear, and capable to believe in strap-on penetrations.


Thinking about having a strap-on sex session is not enough to be confident. You need to know a few more things to slay your partner with your moves. This will happen only if you are choosy enough to pick a perfect strap-on for you. Strap-ons are good investments, so don't be a miser and select a cheap one to face messy consequences later in bed. And most importantly, if you are a couple, decide to buy a perfect strap-on by discussing together.




Strap-ons are dildos with belts. Like human penises of various sizes, shapes, and colors, even dildos are available in various styles. You don't have to go for a regular dildo which resembles a penis. Prefer something adventurous, like curved dildos, veined dildos, and even longer dildos to experience sensual pleasure in various ways. Many sex toy stores offer many varieties. All you need to have is patience to explore. Don't forget to look around for underwear dildos and leather harnessed dildos. They give better sex appeal than a typical belt harnessed dildo.




Don't be over-excited and plan out many erotic actions in your mind before your strap-on arrives at your doorstep or before you try. Unlike a man, you need to know how to handle an erected penis. So, instead of directly jumping into the action, do some rehearsals. Try wearing them perfectly and practice being with it for longer spans. Sit, stand, lie, flip the sides by wearing a strap-on to get habituated to it in every angle. This will help you in real play.



Most importantly, feel it. If you think that strap-on is an artificial element pop up on your naked body, then you may feel uncomfortable at a few places and moments. Try owning your strap-on. Feel that you are blessed with a dick, and you are utilizing it to it offer carnal pleasure to your partner through penetrating deeply into her vagina or anus. Own it, that will bring a difference and make you a pro at it!




Also, be prepared for awkward moments, especially couples who use a strap-on for the first time. Strap-on sex feels good gradually as it takes time for a couple to get used to it. Remember, you have a penis that is erected constantly as default in the form of a strap-on. So, it's dissimilar from a real penis. Some women who have already experienced a real penis may feel a bit awkward dealing with a strap-on. So, if you are a couple, take things slowly and discuss anything which makes you feel uncomfortable or different.




Though it's just a dildo, you still need the support of lube to perfectly fit in your vagina or anus. Strap-ons come with penises in various materials, human flesh rubber, leather, fiber, silicone, or even glass dildos. To allow smoother penetrations without any mess-ups, you must use your favorite lubes.


Don't forget the condoms. Just because it's artificial and can't produce an ejaculation with sperms which can make you pregnant, it doesn't mean you shouldn't use condoms. Body fluids may get sticky and a lot of work to clean up after they get dried on a dry dildo. So, always wear a condom for quicker cleaning sessions post-sex and also they are lubricated too!




How about a giving a blow job to a strap-on dildo? Don't think it's stupidity, it's indeed erotic and sensual to the core. Imagine, your partner slowly licking your dildo and looking into your eyes, as if you own a dick of your own, don't you think, that's a huge turn on? And yes, flavored condoms do help in giving a tasteful blowjob.


Be clear with your roles, like who wants to play top and who wants to play bottom. And don't flip-fuck each other by constantly changing strap-ons. Stick to one role in a session and go with it. Make the fullest out of it whether you are a person who gets penetrated or who penetrates. Some people stick to the role of a bottom, don't force them. Instead, you can ask them with an approach of sexual experimentation to have some sensual adventures in bed. And if you are a lesbian couple, who are versatile, the world is yours, you can have two strap-ons to perform all the gay sex positions.




Don't force or thrust dildos deeply into your partner's pelvic area. Instead, go slowly and let her experience her vulva and clitoris stimulation. Be gentle and try to manage the constant pace to make her moan sensually. Pushing a dildo won't help you; it causes pain and ruptures in vaginal nerve endings or rectum muscles.


Last, but not least, the person who wears a strap-on can never feel an internal sensation of having a dildo as an artificial human penis. You must deal with it. Because strap-on sex is not about the physical pleasures, it's about an emotional erotic pleasure one person experience by giving the other person, the complete physical pleasure. If you are a person, who loves to give pleasure than to take pleasure like a stone-butch lesbian, then strap-on sex is the best option for you.





So, what are you waiting for? Try having strap-on sex instead of regular fingering. Why should boys have all the fun when girls can nail with their sensual moves?


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