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Get ready for a Sensual Lap Dance!

We all know lap dances are exotic to watch. The moves are so graceful and flexible enough. One of the dance forms to entice the audience and to attract people. Normally, lap dancers are trained to be seductive enough to hypnotize people with their moves. Well, not a dance blog to tell you how to be a better lap dancer, but indeed your lap dance moves can be very useful in an erotic way. Inspired by the feasible moves of the Lap dance form, a sex position has designed named after the very dance form!




Sex is all about being flexible to take your partner inside of you physically, emotionally and sensually. To make that possible, a person must have a piece of proper knowledge about sensual sex positions, especially like the 'Lap Dance' sex position. This is a popular sex position like classic missionary, but also the intense and deeper one to which entwine two bodies together in the name of lust and love.


Have you ever observed lap dancers? Look at their thighs and the spacing they maintain between their legs and also focus on their strictly edgy yet graceful moves. It feels orgasmic. Then imagine the intensity of this particular sex position. Regardless of the genders and sexual orientations, this can be practiced by any person. Though it is one of the basic positions, it has the flexibility of working it out at any place.




According to gay couples, in this position, a gay top should sit and spread his legs wider till his pelvic muscles and thigh muscles feel comfortable in managing the gap between them. This is to allow his gay bottom partner to hop gracefully on his manhood for the penetration. Yes, the lap dance is an anal sex position which includes anal penetration more deeply and intensely.


The gay bottom positioning is more flexible than a gay top positioning. This means the person who penetrates should stick to one position by spreading his legs and sitting on a couch, on the edge of a bed, on a brink, on a bench, on a kitchen slab, or even on a commode. Hence, it means this position can be practiced anywhere as it needs less space but the positioning is strictly in seating position. Whereas the person who gets penetrated can gracefully place his thighs and legs on the legs of his partner or on either side of his partner's legs or in between his partner's legs.



Even though a person who receives penetration should be in a sitting position, he/she can slightly half squat or half stand to maintain the proper gap between the genitals. And that's how a couple can make out in a shower room or any washroom of any place. It is too feasible to try regardless of the space of the place.




As this is a flexible position, a couple also needs to be flexible to make this work. A person must be flexible enough in his leg muscles mostly. Because this position demands the holding capabilities of a person to last it for a while without cramps. And this also includes pelvic muscles, anal muscles, and thigh muscles. So, make sure you are healthy enough to try this position.






People follow this position majorly at climaxing because this takes a couple to a sensual nirvana where they can attain the utmost orgasmic and stress relief with both pain and pleasure. The penetrations are smoother because of the spreading of legs, it relaxes the anal and pelvic muscles.


Gay bottoms or people who get penetrated must be a little careful of their weights because you are going to place your warm butt holes on your partners' penises, which make them receive the whole weight of yours on their body which may make them feel uncomfortable to sit properly. So, maintain some gay by placing your heels on any of the external sources or else on your toes. With this you can also have smoother penetrations and also you can manage to have a better time during this position instead of complaining about pain.




Elevate the intense rush of hormones by involving activities like kissing, nipple play and body play during penetration. Yes, as the hands of gay tops are free, instead of placing them on sides, they can sensually place them on the nipples of their partners and run through their fingers to increase the rush. And at the same time, gay bottoms can clutch their hands around the shoulder space of their partners and slightly get into tongue play with their partners. To maintain a perfect grip, a person who penetrates can hold the hip or waist of a person who gets penetrated. This creates hold on your position and to focus on your target to insert it perfectly.




In the end, the usage of lubes and condoms can make you play smoother and safer. So, what are you waiting for, take that dance soul out of your body and make some sensual yet erotic moves with your partner tonight and be seductive to the core till both of you, climaxes in the most orgasmic way! That's what a Lap Dance sex position does to a couple, end them up in sensual Nirvana!



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