People evolve with time because that's how nature works. Queer people's existence is quite natural, and they too gradually evolve by witnessing changes in their lifestyle scenarios and differences in their queer personalities, mostly the good ones. Unfortunately, there is a high chance for any queer person to feel demotivated during the course of evolution and that could literally shrink a person's identity even more and may throw that person in darkness way deep in the closet. Regardless of orientations, identities and closeted statuses, it is important for every queer person to focus on a few things to work on them regularly to emerge as a better and strong queer person than before.
Keep a goal of becoming a powerful queer person by the next pride month. Here powerful doesn't mean that you should be someone completely different. Here powerfulness implies your boldness, courage and openness. So, be a better queer person than this year and flaunt your powerful queer personality the next pride month by being stronger!
Don't entertain the pattern of getting influenced by people's opinions, especially in terms of behavioural attributes and dressing choices.
Don't overthink your queer presence among crowds. No one spends more than 5 secs looking at you. So stop feeling conscious every time you step out.
Don't be desperate enough in expecting support and acceptance from ignorant people.
Don't forget that you are capable enough to make your own decisions and implement your own thoughts instead of depending on other queer people around you.