This question is exclusive to those queer people who can't and won't decide their emotional status without experiencing physical contact. Strictly speaking, though we all the queer people shout aloud the slogans which say "Love is Love," we still run behind the sex part. Sexual orientations are not only about choosing sex partners out of preferences, but they are also more than just an intimate affair a body needs. The question produces two tones for two kinds of people. The ones who easily fall in love with every intimate partner, he/she gets physical and the ones who don't want to fall in love with any person until and unless they find that particular person is good in bed physically. Isn't it relatable?
"The queer community is mostly all about the sex and the sexual attractions", the statement which most of the people outside of the community throw at us. After the introduction of these dating turned hookup apps, the love scenario got diluted. Hookups are still becoming the first preferences than casual dates for many people. The pathetic part is 60% of people are not for the community and from the community. They simply try their luck to get some action with the true queers out there. At least this is the current scenario in India. Unfortunately, all the queer people, knowingly and unintentionally getting targeted for sexual hunger under the name of love.