Being enthusiastic in 'Love' takes you nowhere!

That fervor and eagerness in love fade away one day no matter how intensely you commit yourself with your partner in the initial days of your relationship and it is a harsh truth that must be accepted and know how to maintain the charm in one's romantic bond. That enthusiasm represents the excitement, obsession, and passion of a person towards one's partner. It is hearty to be enthusiastic but if you think that particular factor drives you in long run, then you are deeply mistaken because that's not how love works.

Love is a skillful art that develops two people to accomplish the gift of being in a romantic bond eternally. And only enthusiasm can't help that skill, to keep upgrading itself to let a couple cherish the love between them. Excitement makes you build dreams and plan a beautiful future together but skill makes you understand what must be done and comprehends what need not be done. There's a huge difference between plans and actions. Strictly, love becomes strong only when efforts are visible in a romantic relationship.

We see many couples breaking up or splitting up regularly, but we hardly witness couples that come back to each other regardless of enormous amounts of shattering in their relationships. It seems funny, baseless, and sometimes annoying to see couples fighting with each other and still get back strongly as if nothing has happened between them but those remain the couples who skillfully work the art of love. Unfortunately, in this fast-moving generation, we consider it as plain stupidity. Needless to say, it's toxic to be on a bond in which two people always fight with each other, but it is not mandatory that every fight must lead to an extreme decision of leaving one's romantic partner.

In this extremely fragile situation, people become enthusiastic enough to take decisions without thinking about the reasons for being in a relationship with their loved ones. Those are the very decisions that affect a person's opinion on love, relationship, trust, and commitment. And if that rupture happens, it becomes complicated to be resilient in a romantic bond. Efforts are much needed than enthusiasm, to be in love.