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Aspects that elevate Sensual Elegance during Sex!

Here elegance is not about being stylish when you are supposed to be naked with your sex partner. The sensual elegance is all about being pleasingly creative and simple to let your partner get into you with the atmosphere around. If you think sex is all about two bodies and nothing else, then you will never evolve in the world of sensuality. It is about appreciating every sole factor in and around you to explore the inside out of your sex partner. And to elevate that sensual elegance you need to create your kind of vibe to let your partner understand how passionate you are in terms of physical and emotional intimacy.

If you are someone who doesn't care about surroundings and who is quite okay having sex at any place regardless of the neatness, hygiene, and atmospheric vibe, then this blog isn't for you, and if you can't keep efforts to create a sensual mood during sex, then you never get to explore the zeal and passion in sex. But if you are someone who likes to communicate with your partner in every possible way other than just submitting your body, then you need to know the key aspects like lights, music, mood, place, location, aroma, and the aura to escalate the sensuality in the air.


Darkness and Light play a major role in making a fornicating couple comfortable sensually. Ask your partner and follow the mode of light that your partner needs during sex. Some people like having sex in bright daylight, some people love ultimate darkness while some people love the dim light vibe with candles, lamps, and lanterns. You may have your priority in setting up the light condition around you while having sex. Bring the balance of light and dark around you so that you don't have to bother your eyes during sex which is vitally important to make eye contact or to get things handy around.

Adjusting curtains, allowing ventilation through windows, opting for colored lights instead of incandescent and fluorescent lamps, placing candles in the corners of the room or places where your positions won't get disturbed, and hanging lanterns to set a sensual mood to give you that motivation to make love with your partner.


Hardly, people like to have sex in silence especially when they get their private space. If you have a fetish for moaning, try to blend it with an appealing sound around you. Music heals, and it also can develop a sensual vibe during sex. Instead of playing your typical playlist with heavy beats, go for soothing, calming, relaxing, and inspiring music. Some people maintain sex playlists whereas a few people like a particular kind of music when they sensually get involved with their sex partners. It surely elevates the sensual elegance during sex.


Creating a mood involves both your physical and mental preparation. You don't have to pump yourself up with workouts, pills, and potions. Be calm and do yoga that strengthens your core and your mind. Relax your nerves and perform all the actions in bed during sex, not before sex. Prepare yourself by taking a shower, cleanse yourself properly regardless of your roles, maintain ideal hygiene, don't overdo it, and always try to make things simple instead of complicated at the last moments. That relaxation factor is more important than anything else. And equally engage your partner to feel cozy, comfortable, and relaxed.


Be it a bed or a couch or a floor or a kitchen slab or even your vanity room, the place where you plan to have sex must be neat, clean, and easy to shift sex positions. Make sure you don't have sex in a place where the things around, keep disturbing you. The space factor is crucial for you to retain undivided attention to your partner. Maintain clean sheets on your bed, dust your couches well and sort the space accordingly, make sure your kitchen slab is spacious and shouldn't be filled with kitchen tools, you must keep your washrooms clean and fragrant if you like to have shower sex and wherever the place is, make sure you both fit in properly and can change positions easily.


Location is a unique aspect as it involves a person's interest in having sex with one's partner. Everyone has that fantasy to have sex in a particular location like resorts, beaches, mountains, forests, luxurious spaces, and exotic couple getaway spots. You can create all the aspects at the location where you like to have sex with your partner, and it elevates the sensual elegance to make love with your partner the whole day. Again, efforts matter in terms of choosing and planning a sensual session in a particular location.


Body aroma and the atmospheric aroma, both play a significant role in wanting your partner badly inside you or getting into your partner deeply. The sense of fragrance must not be neglected and should never be overdone. Go for simple and light fragrances in various forms. Scented candles, bath bombs, exotic room sprays, use and throw zippers, fragrant crystals bring that sophisticated vibe to sex. And at the same time, you need to smell good. Blend your body's fragrance with an alluring perfume. Body mists, body butter, body lotions are all enough to make your skin pores spread fragrance. You don't need to spray heavily scented perfumes because, during sex, you surely sweat, and these strong perfumes may cause discomfort to both your nostrils.


All of these aspects bring the aura to your surroundings where you and your partner can appreciate each other sexually. All these must be planned, prepared, and maintained before sex, even though if it involves your partner to support you out in creating the sensual vibe so that you can have a beautiful and engaging sex session and need not be worried, disgusted, and embarrassed after sex. The sensual elegance makes a couple be with each other cuddling or encouraging to make love again and again instead of just finishing the job, getting dressed, and leaving the room right after sex. If you consider these aspects, you will witness the change in your sex life!

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