This is the question that pops up in most of our minds when we get to know that some random person uses us (we queer people) as a sex toy and disappears as if nothing has ever happened. This isn't only about the erotic fantasies but also the emotional intimacies, financial help, mental support, and physical aid. One must not generalize the particular set of people in society, but a few people come under the roof of typical users who manage to get into the hearts and holes of queer people as part of their detoxification methods.
If someone approaches you with the idea of relieving one's mental stress by sleeping with you and act completely weird the next day, don't you feel bad for yourself? Indeed, you feel ashamed for being such an easy catch for someone who doesn't deserve even a single minute of your life. But, some of us still entertain such absurd and unbearable people.
A few bicurious and heterosexual people fall into this weird category of channelizing queer people as stress relievers. These people hardly value others' emotions and feelings and these are the ones who typically portray the queerphobic attributes in the outer world. In public, they demean you and privately they worship you. This kind of drastic change must not be encouraged by any queer person regardless of the materialistic pleasures.
They approach you with the word called "Love" to simply lure you towards fulfilling their lusty fantasies. If you fall for such silly emotions then your mental peace will be surely ruined. Practically, the emotion of love couldn't be built in just a few moments. It takes time for a person to understand, analyze and scrutinize every unique perspective to fall in love. It goes without saying, that love is not about calculations, but commitments must be definitely calculative, if not you can never lead a life together. So, if someone reaches you out with the concept of love, be smart enough to make moves that transport you on the right path instead of leading yourself towards darkness.