Dirty talks aren't bad, indeed they are one of the essential mediums of communication between two romantic partners during their intimate intercourse sessions. It's important too. Like how it is important to inspire others to feel motivated before committing an act or an endeavor, sex talk is also important to entice and seduce one's partners before, during, and after the sex. Do you know that dirty phrases have the power of making a person feel horny within no time and regardless of situations and surroundings? They indeed make a person feel weak in knees without getting into any sensual act. That is the reason why sexting and phone sex can make a person feel intimacy without even experiencing a touch from the other person.
Dirty phrases are of many types. Though they are all about talking, describing, mentioning, elaborating, and enlightening the sensuality of a person's body or sexual fantasy or a fetish or any kind of situation, they are different for different people, situations, and even sexual roles. If you are a gay couple, a person who gets penetrated possibly known as Gay bottom can't be projected as superior in inserting a penis, because that's completely against his sexual role. Dirty phrases can influence your partner, only when you use them correctly which befits your partner's personality, sexuality, sexual roles, and preferences.