Dirty talks aren't bad, indeed they are one of the essential mediums of communication between two romantic partners during their intimate intercourse sessions. It's important too. Like how it is important to inspire others to feel motivated before committing an act or an endeavor, sex talk is also important to entice and seduce one's partners before, during, and after the sex. Do you know that dirty phrases have the power of making a person feel horny within no time and regardless of situations and surroundings? They indeed make a person feel weak in knees without getting into any sensual act. That is the reason why sexting and phone sex can make a person feel intimacy without even experiencing a touch from the other person.
Dirty phrases are of many types. Though they are all about talking, describing, mentioning, elaborating, and enlightening the sensuality of a person's body or sexual fantasy or a fetish or any kind of situation, they are different for different people, situations, and even sexual roles. If you are a gay couple, a person who gets penetrated possibly known as Gay bottom can't be projected as superior in inserting a penis, because that's completely against his sexual role. Dirty phrases can influence your partner, only when you use them correctly which befits your partner's personality, sexuality, sexual roles, and preferences.
Always remember, do not throw those sensual phrases just for the sake of sex. Keep your relation, attachments, and engagements in your mind before spilling your words. Most importantly, if you are talking dirty, be comfortable, and confident enough. And on top of that, mean every single phrase you use on your partner to entice him through your sex talk. So, if you are a gay bottom, you must use a few dirty phrases to seduce, to control, to engage your partner.
Everyone likes compliments, including your top partner too. Just because you are getting fucked, it doesn't mean you should act pricey. Stop being a bitch, and appreciate your partner and his features, mostly his genital features. Yes, praising your top's cock will make him feel good and encourage him to give you the sensual pleasure you are looking for. It's like a little boost up for his manhood to perform well in bed. (wink wink)
I love your dick.
I miss your cock.
Woah, it's huge!
That's a thick one to fill me up completely.
Your head is exotically powerful. (If your partner is circumcised)
I want to feel that extra skin of yours with my tongue. (If your partner is uncircumcised)
I like the way how you maintain your cock and balls.
I want to feel the cushion bush of yours. ( Mentioning pubes)
Next comes the foreplay phrases, where you need to charge your partner to his extreme level to make him hard enough to get controlled by your tongue through blow job. Use dirty phrases as one of the tactics to make your partner feel horny enough and urge him to wait no more for, giving himself to you. While giving him a blow job, look into his eyes to make eye contact and communicate through them. When you get a gap to breathe or to shift another oral sex position, use these dirty phrases.
I want to feel your cock in my mouth.
I can't wait to taste the pre-cum of yours.
I'm going to drain your balls.
I want you to make me the best employee for the job of blowing you.
I feel so horny and helpless when you dominate me.
Look into my eyes and make me wet.
I want to taste your cum. (When he's about to climax)
I want your cum.
You're not leaving here until I have your man milk in my mouth.